there is this guy who has been after me since sophmore year, and now im a senior. he is first of all, arrogant, self-centered, annoying, conceited, and show-offy. he always tries to impress me wherever he is, and tries to get my attention. so he knows i hate him, ive said it to his face, he knows why too. i do not talk to him and have never been friends with him, obviously showing him that there is noo chance. but lately he's been trying more and more. he's been asking my friends personal questions about me, expecting them to tell him everything. he wants to know who i hang out with, who i like, who likes me, why dont i have a boyfriend, why do i hate him, why my best friend likes me, or if/why i rejected him. he was outside my house yesterday talking extremely loud so he can get my attention. obviously hating him isnt working...how do i get rid of this kid??
2007-01-26 19:07:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
isnt a restraining order too much? also, there is a guy that i am sorta involved with, and he knows that. thats why he hates on him all the time. the funny thing is that everyone hates him. everyone.
2007-01-26 19:17:44 · update #1
sounds like u need a restraining order...that's scary...tell him to leave u alone...if that doesn't work its called harrasment...
2007-01-26 19:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by kowalley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, he thinks he is such "hot stuff, eh? Well, he obviously isn't.and I'm sure your friends are already in agreement with this: he asks questions about you? They don't answer. He shows up by your house playing loud music again, etc.? All together, I would request that you get a notebook specifically for documenting every time he asks your friends about you, and, every time he hangs out by your house, talking loudly, playing music loudly, or anything that makes it obvious he is trying to get your attention. Then, please request your parents to help by taking you to an attorney, or a local courthouse, and help get the paperwork together for an anti-harrassment order. If possible, maybe get your friends to write declarations (I think they have to be 18 yrs. old to do this) to tell how this guy acts around you at school, etc. Depending on what your parents say, to start with, maybe they need to have a "talk" with this guy, and warn him to knock it off-or court will be involved-or just do the court thing first. Or, next time he is talking loudly outside your house, call the cops on him-for disturbing the peace-that should help get his attention to shape up.Take care.
2007-01-27 03:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like things are getting out of control. Be careful he sounds obsessed with you. Make sure you always tell your parents where you are going and if you start to get nervous please make a report at the police station . He is actually stalking you through other people that he asks questions to. For him to be outside your house talking loudly sounds like he lost a screw. This behavior is growing to be dangerous . Always be alert and keep your wits about you. Seek advice from the police on how to handle this situation. Marie V
2007-01-27 03:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by marie v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a guy friend of your to act like your boyfriend. Telling him that you hate him hurt his feelings and saw you as a challenge and he will do anyhting to have you.
Always hold hands with this boyfriend of yours and talk to him a lot.
If it fails you can talk to your stalker and ask him for a large amount of money that he will fail to bring. You can also start a rumour about him having a small you know what and people will be laughing at him for days. When he wants to talk to you tell him you cannot compromise on size
2007-01-27 03:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see your counselor and say that you think this guy is stalking you. If you aren't encouraging his behavior, then he needs to stop. If he won't listen to you, maybe he'll listen to a counselor or assistant principal. It wouldn't hurt to fill your parents in on what's going on if you haven't already.
If he's hanging around your house, you can call the police on him for loitering - if he's on your property it's called trespassing - if he comes to your door - he's an unwanted guest.
If hating him doesn't send the message to go away - then he's obsessed and that is scary. Get help.
2007-01-27 03:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by quietude61 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order is the first thing to come to mind
Don't do anything that would get him angry right near you. He may end up hurting you or coming after you.
2007-01-27 03:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This does indeed sound creepy. Talk to your school counselor and your parents. You may need to get a restraining order against him to leave you alone.
2007-01-27 03:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell everyone you know that you intend to get the police involved if he doesn't back off. That includes him if possible. If that doesn't work then follow through on the threat.
2007-01-27 03:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him already to stay away, and hes persistant, give me his address and i will have my younger brother fix the problem.Im too old to mess with minors but i hate seeing women get harrased by idiots.
2007-01-27 03:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops there is a law against this and it's called stalking.
2007-01-27 03:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋