hard to get?
2007-01-26 18:54:47 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really likes you and you also like him, why would you want to bother playing hard to get? You must have issues girl.......
Forget what you've been told, guys like simplicity, so just let him know how you feel....most likely scenario is he's going to appreciate your upfrontness rather than pretending to beat around the bush with him and make him struggle mentally and emotionally trying to figure you out....
2007-01-26 19:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him like a friend, nothing else. When he gets a little confused, send him the slightest of a signal. Be sure not to be free all time. Don't accept the first date, compromise it to your schedule. Be sweet and gentle, but don't be afraid to be assertive. Balance the above to your guy's specifications. You might not want to flirt with other guys, but if he's that kinda guy, then go for it. MOST IMPORTANTLY, don't overdress. Sleek and chic or sexy and messy, make sure not to overdo it. Even your skin, put a bit of blush on your cheekbones, nude lip gloss and maybe some mascara. Oh! And if you wear perfume, spritz in the air and walk through. Subtlety, allure combined with sweet and simple. He won't be able to resist.
It's all about leaving the bread crumbs. Make sure he finds them but make it a challenge.
2007-01-27 03:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you worried about ? He likes you for yourself . You must be doing something right! Why do you have to play a game that will probably backfire and will reveal to him that you are unsure of yourself. Everyone likes a confident person . So be confident about your position with him. He sees something special in you so now is not the time to play games to show him an insecure person that he doesn't see. Look in the mirror and see what he sees then smile at yourself and respect the situation . Marie V
2007-01-27 03:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by marie v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to look so hard to get. Game playing never makes healthy relations. Pl. look at some of these tests on relationships-
http://www.wishafriend.com/quiz/relationships/
Relationship Quiz
* What type of an ex are you?
* Who wears the pants in your relationship?
* Do you trust your partner too much?
* Does your ex still have feelings for you?
* Do you take your partner for granted?
* Are you being manipulated by your partner?
* Is your long distance relationship rocking or is it in the rocks?
* How strong is your relationship?
* Are you a giver?
* Are you enhancing your partners self-esteem?
* How well do you relate to people?
* Will you survive a relationship breakdown?
* Do you balance your heart and head in early romance?
* Are you an interfering partner?
* Are you getting joy in your relationship?
* Do you have faith in your partner?
* Will you grow together till old age?
* Are you in love even now?
* Check out your relationship measure
* Is your partner emotionally satisfied?
* Test your loyalty quotient
* Is your relationship making you sick?
* Do you forgive easily?
* Are you in love with your boss?
2007-01-27 03:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by manjari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes u ,u like him u dont have to look desperate,any way what would u be desperate for?why play hard to get if u like him?
2007-01-27 03:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is really overrated. Oftentimes it just confuses and frustrates guys. It is much better just to be yourself, be open and honest, and tell him what you think.
Good luck!
2007-01-27 03:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
increase your peripheral vision so you look like you're looking one way but really you are seeing him with the side of your eyes checking to see if he's looking at you. i've totally mastered this and do it all the time.
2007-01-27 03:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by 킹세븐 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Chances are he will be the desperate one :)
2007-01-27 02:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. but like the guy with all the quizzes above me said games dont make healthy relationships, if he likes you the games already over and won... by you. so time to be who you are and collect your winnings
2007-01-27 03:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by airdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the word around that you don't like him and always have lots of fun.... the be really nice and flirtatious to him. but whatever you do, do not let him know that you like him.
2007-01-27 02:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by identityquiet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋