i had a physical at my sch and then they said i had tight foreskin on my penis, then form then onwars my mum pops into the toilet like 3-5times a week to look at my penis.SHe also bring me to the doc sometime and she stays in the room even when the doctor is checking my penis!One time she also went to touch my penis and i had an erection in front of her! P.S i am 13 yrs old
2007-01-26 18:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by help me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i have a 14 yr old son,i think ur mom should not ever look,touch or see ur penis.tell her u r big enough to see the dr about ur penis ,i hope u get better soon.
2007-01-26 18:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I found it amusing when you wrote that your Mother, is worried about the personal problem you are experiencing right now, because your Mother should realize that at 13 yrs, you are considered a teenager, and it is when you would like to have some privacy of your own. If possible please try to explain to her about it and I hope that she would understand and try to let you grow up by yourself without her help. I have a grandson that is four yrs. old and when he goes to the Bathroom to do potty, as he says he does not want me to clean his behind those are his words, because I am a girl and he says girls do not do that, and that is coming from a little kid. I would imagine how you must have felt with what happened with your Mother. I hope all goes well with you.
2007-01-30 23:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mom's are concerned about your health and sometimes forget 'tactfulness'.
story: my brother got a 'tick' stuck near the base of his p***s or in such a place that he couldnt see it but could feel it and she had removed it for him. he was like 18 at the time.
probably, was more weird/embarassing for you to get an erection in front of your mom, but it had nothing to do with your mom and more about being touched there.
Here is another story maybe it will help::
As a former nurse and had to once give a bath to a young patient who had a spinal injury and he had no sense of being touched below the waist and limited in arm movement. he was listening to music and reading and not paying any attention to me doing my job and was unaware that his p***s reacted to a cursory (quick and brief) washing in that area. I know it wasnt the fact that he knew I would be washing in that area mentally cuz it only happened when i actually had to touch that area. it was reaction to touch.
2007-01-27 03:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay mate she does sound generally worried about you but she may think your alot younger still comin in with you at the doc's, checkin your penis in the loo, tell her that your old enough to go to the doc's by yourself, and that if there was something new to tell her about your foreskin or other medical problems then you will let her know but could she be a lil more sympathetic with your needs as you are growing and need to brake away a lil bit.
2007-01-27 02:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time at a doctors visit... Tell your Mom in front of the doctor that you are getting to old for her to be touching you there and that it makes you very uncomfortable... I'm sure she will understand, maybe the doctor will support you in this....
2007-01-27 06:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your mother is worried that there may be something wrong with you. I would suggest locking the door when you go use the bathroom and also talk to your mother.
Let your mother know you feel uncomfortable with what she is doing, but also assure her that if you have any problems in that area you will tell her as fast as you can.
2007-01-27 03:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Geez, she washed and bathed your little pecker for years...she has seen it hard several times before so she probably does not even know that she is embarrassing you.
Wait until she has company over, go to the bathroom and then shout "hey mom, I am in the bathroom, you want to come and check my penis again?"
that should get her to stop!
2007-01-27 02:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If she is making you uncomfortable, explain to her that is makes you feel uncomfortable and that you are now 13 and would like a bit of privacy.
2007-01-27 05:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Leesa J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know you're on the computer unsupervised?
Did you know that when we send in violation reports your parents get copies of them?
Now, be good little kiddies and go watch a scary movie and STAY OFF THE COMPUTER!
2007-01-27 04:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this attention is making you uncomfortable and it clearly is, you should ask your mother to respect your privacy. In my opinion, once you start to grow pubic hair, it is time for you to see the doctor on your own. If you need your mother to explain something, you can invite her in.
2007-01-27 02:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋