well... this girl is really irritating with her emotional problems... you cannot tease her because she gets short-tempered easily... and im getting irritated... but i think i am attracted to her... please help...
i do not know what to do... i feel something is there between us but her temper makes me turn off... but i really like her... even though we have so little to talk about... should i let her go... i said we need sometime to cool (again... happened 3 times already)...
please someone help... thanks... if we ever get together again should i treat her different? i mean its my style... please... i do not know what to do...
2007-01-26 18:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Karl G. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with your self. Sounds like you like her but may be afarid of a relationship. If her hot temper bothers you so much then talk to her calmly and explain to her that it is what holding you to back. And if she can't or won't try to fix it then you are done dealing with her problem and her.
Good luck.
2007-01-26 18:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by tasha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How well you get get along as friends? That's the main thing. You need to think about what kind of relationship you want for the two of you. If you want it to last, you have to connect. And so far, there doesn't really seem to be any sparks. If it didn't work 3 times already, then, I think it would be better if you just let things be. This will sound corny, but there's only one thing I can say... follow your gut.
And maybe she's short-tempered because she's stressed. Give her a reason not to be. If you really want it to work, maybe treat her to a surprise spa day or something. Or maybe just the two of you chilling without any interruptions from cellphones and pagers and intruding technology. Connect with nature and let the earth nurture. It might just be the cure for her and your ailment...
2007-01-27 02:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mechiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to her, go for it. If she is able to trust you to tell her emotional problems or she reacts to teasing by being herself, you guys got something here. Dont be afraid to try, be afraid of not trying and regret in the future, go ahead and give you guys a chance! Good luck!
2007-01-27 02:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by guriazinhainla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like her so much as to make her problem your problem?
If she has emotional problems she needs to see a therapist, obviously she's not a happy person, you think you can be happy with her, as an outsider I don't think so. It will be like accepting being abused. Don't you think you deserve better?
2007-01-27 02:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a starting of a romance ..in a novel anyway lol ...
urm have ya tell her that u like her ??? ... ever wonder why she got pricked by watever u r doing ? ( u may think that u did nuttin wrong but she thinks otherwise ) .
Yup so gd luck :P
2007-01-27 02:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋