The story goes like in the song "I will Survive". Just lately I have been thinking about how she did me so wrong. Yet she shows up at my door every time I am ready to move on. She does this thing that just throws you in a hoop and madly in love with her again. I really don't want to go through all of that again...yet I can't get her out of my life...what should I do?
I do have a good friend relationship with her, but that boundary of Friend or Love alway comes up...so what to do? Anything will do.
2007-01-26 18:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're in the same boat. My ex of four years and I broke up a year and six months ago, and up to now i still love him very much and i can't get him off my mind. His pictures are still in my iPod..i always listen to the songs we used to love..i still visit his cousins who are very close to me. Obviously, i haven't moved on yet. Sometimes become bitter and i want to curse love. I mean, you get that feeling that you gave everything yet your everything still isn't enough to make him stay. You tried to be perfect but still you're trying in vain. It's really hard, and you get the big phobia of falling in love again and risk getting hurt again.
She's not letting you move on and it's not fair. I suggest that you distance yourself from her. come on man, help yourself!
1.) throw away all her mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of her.
2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.
3.) Keep yourself busy.
4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,
5.) Keep a list of all the bad things she did to you and tack them next to your bed.
6.) Sever all of your communications with her.
7.) Avoid seeing her.
8.)Avoid the places she frequents.
9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve her.
Remember this:
GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE.
2007-01-27 01:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I broke up with my gf, I stayed away from her for a while. It's not that we are not friends. But I'd like to give us a chance to cool down and everything. In your case, I think it's better if you stay away or even ignore her for a while. Cos if u guys were still close friends, she might think that u're still interested in her. That's why she keeps on showing up in your life. If she still keeps on coming or asks you why you're ignoring her, tell her the truth about ur feeling. And hope she'll understand
2007-01-26 18:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hengky W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not being fair to you by doing this. You deserve better than that. Maybe it's time for a break, even as a friend, until you really can move on.
2007-01-26 18:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give in and accept that you can't get over her for now. The day will come when youve had absolutely enough from her, and won't need to ask these questions anymore. sometimes it takes longer than others. Just wait.
2007-01-26 18:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if i was u id move ,then u can move on with ur life.find u a new love,throw the old one to the curb,
2007-01-26 18:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over one, is to get two new ones ! That will
teach her ..
2007-01-26 18:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋