What are some strategies for improving communication skills?

Question

It seems I can't apporach people. I have tried but find it hard.

Answer 1

Begin by understanding yourself, recognizing that you are the greatest person you know, the best friend you 'll ever have. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself without judgment. If you can truly understand and accept yourself you will find yourself understanding others. When another speaks, listen. Don't be thinking about what you are going to say in reply, really listen to what they are saying and see if you can truly understand what message they are trying to communicate. When you do respond, indicate in your response you have heard and understood their message. Also, remember, when someone tells you something about their reaction, their emotional response to something, what they have told you really isn't open for debate...they're not asking if you think their response is correct, accurate or appropriate. They are just recounting their response. Honor their feelings. Honor their response. Yours may be different...which is fine...but that's no judgment on their response. Each of you is entitled to a unique response. If you want to discuss it, you can compare your responses and wonder why they were different...but don't pass judgment on the validity of their response or your own response. Listen and avoid judgments. Good luck.

Answer 2

That's mostly because ppl have the fear of saying things wrong. Watch a lot of news and add a little sugar to your current affairs.. this will help you blend into any topic that is being discussed. No body will move away from a charming smile & the most imp. thing people look for is a guy/gal sans the urge to gossip. So, never speak ill of others. & you don't have to be a style icon to get people to know you, just CARE is enough!!Good luck

Answer 3

You know what? I bet things would change if you took a Conflict Resolution Workshop. They show you how to use communication skills (active listening, validating your listener) to diffuse an argument and establish understanding. I helps you by enabling you to interact with others. If you're shy, I think this could give you the confidence you want. It's all about communicating for peace.

Answer 4

I speak well but tend to offend people and am very angry too often nearly always .. I just need some friends to talk to more and find my best friend again just so we can talk and clean the air a bit. It has been a long time and I am sure it would be beneficial for both of us ..

Answer 5

The best part of communication is listening.

People like to talk about themselves. Show curiosity/interest in someone and they will usually respond. Try not to think about any response while the person is talking; really try to hear them. It's flattering.

Answer 6

Well always be prepared, if you don't know about the subject don't talk that much. I like to talk to myself out loud standing in front of the mirror. A good communicator knows a little bit of everything but further more he knows how to listen. what i would suggest to is that you should go out and talk to strangers that way you will slowing lose fear of talking in large crowds, presentations or even at parties.

Answer 7

I have the same problem... All the books ive read say you just have to be brave and have confidence and talk to people. They say it gets easier after u do it for a while.. I think its still difficult!

Answer 8

Become a Good Listener,who's patient and compassionate-The rest will follow!

Answer 9

If you are an adult , I would say " more good sex ".