This is something that has been happening for quite a while, because we have been dating for three years now.. At the begininng of the relationship he wasn't, but now he is.... and to be honest when he accuses me over and over... it honestly makes me want to... is that such a horrible thing, and what can i do to make him stop being like this... He needs to constantly check up on me... and I am unable to go out with my friends without him... and without him calling me 50 times.. but if he goes out... it is alright... What do i do?
2007-01-26 18:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by t.baby87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a tough one because you said he wasnt always like this. but sometimes they say someone accuses you of things that aren't true then usually they are the ones doing it.
2007-01-26 18:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not saying this is happening to you. But an ex of mine started doing this kind of crap to me and the whole time he was cheating on me! Like he was waiting for his payback or something. You need to find out what is going on with him. Is he just jealous or cheating and jealous? You cannot live your whole life this way.
2007-01-26 18:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You run. These are the signs of a potential abuser. He has control issues which will only get worse with time, as you have already noticed. Get out before the abuse becomes physical.
2007-01-26 18:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do except leaving him will have any effect other than fueling his irrational thoughts and insecurities. If you attempt to discuss it, he will interpret that as you looking for an excuse to see other people. I would advise you to get out of this relationship as soon as possible. It will only get worse.
2007-01-26 18:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what it was that made him loose is faith in you! if there isnt anything then explain to him that you care for him but you need time w/o him to just hang w/ friend or be by you self w/o him up your butt all the time and if he cant trust you then ask why is he with you if he comes up w/ a ansewer then work on it together
2007-01-26 18:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by lilbluemaninmyhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put his butt on the road. You do not need a man that is this jealous. He is only going to get worse, but I hope you leave him before he gets violent.
2007-01-26 18:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm just let him know that u love him and would not cheat on him that way u can make him calm and tell him to trust you and that u would trust him the same way. thats only because he loves u alot thats why he's acting like that.
2007-01-26 18:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your not talking to me but jeallous people tend to hate and I usually just killem with kindness and make them hate me more
2007-01-26 18:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will just get worse as time goes on.........
Run run. GEt yourself a new guy
2007-01-26 18:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to not worry and tell him that he is the one you love!
2007-01-26 18:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by hockey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋