Confusing signals, I really need some good advice, fast.?
Ok heres the situation, I've been talking to this girl...well the other day I asked her out for this weekend. Well, she said she couldnt on Friday, that she was having a party at her house, or girls night out. Well, then she said, we will soon though. Ok so I'm good so far right?...Well then yesterday, she said she can't wait, and we really need to hang out soon. Ok well today, I asked her if she's coming to the basketball game..and she said she hasnt decided if she's goin to the movies, or the game?? whatever happend to girls nite out.....and then theres this other guy, he likes her, and she feels srry for him, but told me that she likes me...and just doesnt wanna hurt him....well i told her ....
" if he really liked you, he wouldnt be trying to controll you, its bout you, not him."....well that made her feel special...i just dont know what to do...do you think she's goin to the movies with him behing my back or what?
2007-01-26 17:54:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you own her? Are you married or engaged to her? If not then she isn't doing anything "behind your back". You and her don't have a relationship so you really have no place to be getting possessive. You're talking about this other guy trying to control her and yet YOU are trying to do the same. Maybe THAT'S why she is going to the movies with the other guy.
2007-01-26 18:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd move on. Once she sees that you have other things to do besides wait around on her, if you are really meant to be together it will happen. It sounds like she's making excuses , that she doesn't know what she really wants.
2007-01-27 02:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by carla d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why females like your girl..(who isnt even your girl and you actn like she is which MANIAC-ISH in itself).......mess with cats like me....cuz we dont sweat no 6itch and 8 out of 10 females mess with guys that they have to chase and i'll take them odds allday...things like this make the world go-round...keep it up Simp!
2007-01-27 02:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Imrickjamesbeotch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋