Especialy if you are friends with that person. You risk losing a friend if they dont feel the same b/c it would be all weird and stuff.
2007-01-26 17:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by Florida Gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand you point but thats depending on the person of course everything is easier said then done but the fact is no matter what people say your right, you need to think it through not just burst out and scream it to them. First ask youself, Do i really think we could have something worth risking our friendship if the answer is yes then go for it no matter what stands in your way. People search their entire lifes for their special someone and if you pass up a chance when its worth the risk you will always regret it and wonder "what if". Dont be a statistic, LIVE and enjoy life because although it may not always be perfect its a beautiful ride! Good Luck!
2007-01-26 18:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have nothing to lose. Depending on where you are in this friendship, you can't hide feelings. If you are afraid of the unknown, then you may not be ready to face the possibility of rejection that may happen. However, you may gain more if you risk it nad tell the person. It really depends on where you see this going- are you just attracted to himm or are you trying to turn your freindship into something more. Only you know thar answer! Have a few drinks together, go out, and see where it ends up. If it's meant to be, it will work!
2007-01-26 18:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Karina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a better way to get it done and over with, if so do enlighten us all. Telling them may be hard it may be a risk but its either that or stay idle hiding your feelings for the other person which is no better than just telling them, because either way the risk of the loss of friendship is there.
-NmD!
2007-01-26 18:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by faulkenberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH i know how hard it is, trust me. I've done it lots of times. And I've also realized, if you are truly friends with them, and the answer is no, then you will go on as if it never was brought up. THAT is the sign of a true friend. Think about it, would you rather go through life NOT KNOWING what could have been if you had just asked??? I know it's hard, life is hard, so just do it.
2007-01-26 18:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know...its always a risk but if you never take the risk..you never live. You got to take these situations as "Hey Im ready, whatever the outcome is."
If he was really your friend, he wouldnt be weirded out and abandon you just becuase you say you like him.
2007-01-26 17:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no kidding... but what else can you say to someone? It's like people want some magic formula to make someone love them back. There is no easy answer. you need to risk it and tell them how you feel.
2007-01-26 18:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but no. It is hard, but swallow your fear and go. Better to try and have to deal with a short period of discomfort (real short if you just resume life like it was before), than to let a great chance at happiness pass you by. Best of luck and yeah, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
2007-01-26 18:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Somebody Real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right ! but don't feel sad, mad and jelous when she finds someone. That's why you gotta tell them before is too late. If you ask her and then she says no then well respect the fact that she ain't feeling you like that.
2007-01-26 18:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they don't until they been that situation but you have to put yourself in a situation and then see what happens i did that and now i have a potential boyfriend we are still messing with each others heads though hopefully it will work better for you
2007-01-26 18:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋