This is the first time she has gone out since we have been dating. I called her at 10:00, she didnt answer so I left a message. She called back at 11:00 but I couldn't answer. She did not leave a voice mail. I called back at 12:15 and she didnt answer and now it's 2:00 a.m. and she hasn't called, texted or nothing. I dont trust women because I have been hurt a lot and I feel like this sounds odd that she didnt at least leave me a message and let me know what she was doing tonite(because the last time I talked to her she didnt know what she was doing). What do you think?
2007-01-26 17:54:14 · 8 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't expect her to just sit around all night. I'm sure a friend called and they went out at the last minute. Nothing wrong with being spontaneous. Hello, she did call you back and you didn't answer. Your just playing phone tag. It happens some times. Don't freak out. If you can't learn to trust then you don't need to be in a relationship. That's the number one thing. Some times a girl needs her space and her friends too. Not only her boyfriend. Don't be so controlling. You will end up pushing her away.
In the morning call her and just ask how her night went. When she tells, just be cool and say......Awwww honey, I'm glade you had fun. You should do it more often. That will show that you trust her and that you want her to spend time with her friends too. She will respect you in the long run. Don't jump to conclusions till she gives you a reason to.
2007-01-26 18:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by darlingnicky772 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to slow down sweetie... nothing turns a girl off more than a jealous guy. I understand that you have been hurt in the past, but atleast give her a chance. My boyfriend of three years constantly accuses me of cheating and that only makes me want to more....just think about it
2007-01-26 17:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by t.baby87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally agree with everyone man... you need to trust your women... if you both love each other or whatever the case should be everything will be okay... and like the other dude said, she's probably in bed and will call you in the morning...
2007-01-26 18:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say it's 2:15 and she is probably either in bed, or doesn't have her cell with her. She'll call you in the morning.
2007-01-26 17:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is sleeping and do not chase her away she loves you but just by chance she is a bad person she is going to do it some time if she is that type of person so give her space and belive you choose some one who is good and just a sleep
2007-01-26 18:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by sailor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need therapy to fix your control issues.
Your girlfriend does not have to check in with you, nor does she have to inform you of what she does.
If you want someone who is constantly going to sit next to you, get a dog.
2007-01-26 17:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic. Go to bed. See what the morning brings.
2007-01-26 18:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably sleeping
2007-01-26 18:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋