Ok, so I really really like this guy. I've liked him for two years now and we are real good friends. At the begining of our friendship everyoe said he liked me. I blew it off and said No no, he doesnt. He got a girlfriend and went out with her for a year, now they are broken up and no longer speak. Some ppl have started to tell me again that he likes me but I still say No no no b/c I think I would b able to tell if he did and I really just dont think so. Anyway, lately I have been having these dreams about him. And in the dreams, I can definately tell that he likes me. He never comes right out and says it but I just know that he does. all the dreams have huge hints in them that he likes me in the dreams. I am just wondering if this is just me playing out wishful thinking, or if my dreams are trying to tell me to open my eyes and see things for what they really are. Sorry this is So long.
2007-01-26 17:30:39 · 14 answers · asked by Florida Gal 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Dreams are powerful.
First experience.
Amongst the distractions in kindergarten I remember going to bed after having done my homeowork still stumped on the 3 versions of the word "to. two. too" but within the focus of sleep and without all the distractions suddenly it clicked and my comprehension grapsed. the next morning i aced the vocab test.
Ever since then I have respected the messages of dreams. And I think this may be one of those cases you are experiencing where you are not picking up on the clues because of distractions. Or maybe you are in a situation that you are not entirely comfortable or able to focus lending to the distraction. Just make sure you get him aside and speak to him. Use eye contact and make a date of it. Get it out quick before you become some wierd psycho about this situation.
2007-01-26 17:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its possible that your subconscious mind is trying to tell you to pay attention. Whether he actually likes you is another question. I would suggest talking to him about it. What would happen if you asked him how he feels about you? It might be scary, but if you don't take the plunge, you'll never really know! Worst case scenario is that he likes you for a friend, then you have a friend and can start letting the romantic ideas go. Best case scenario is you can move up to the next level of friendship and romance. You have nothing to lose my dear. Go for it! :)
2007-01-26 17:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by explorerkade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, ok this is what I think. Since you really really liked this guy for so long now. I believe these are your feelings projected as his in your dreams.
Why don't you tell him how you feel about him? Why play a guessing game it could be much easier if you just told him and maybe he feels the same way and if not oh well..his lost..right?
;)
Hope this helped a little.
2007-01-26 17:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Juila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually wean the human mind dreams about somebody our something it trying to tell you what could happen in the future, or what you want. Tell him you had a dream about him and wait until he ask you what About.
2007-01-26 17:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by Unoptrid1aq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by snetsinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be a sign that you like him unconsciously... you know what's interesting? A person may dream 7 dreams a night and most of them we dont remember... but since you remember a lot of these dreams about HIM... Its a sign that for YOU, HE is someone whom you care...
I guess I agree with someone who told you "to listen to your friends"... because friends usually know a lot of things that we dont... ;)
2007-01-26 19:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by wil_ret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking so much and just ask him out. You've already wasted a year of your life away guessing.....do you really want to waste away more time?
Just cause you can't tell he likes you doesn't mean he doesn't like you. It just means you can't read his body language as well as you can others.
2007-01-26 17:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him. if your still not sure talk to some people really in depth about it, get your anxietys out and then make the decision to ask him out or to not to. it sounds like yalls relationship could go further than where it is. sound him out if you dont want to directly ask him.
2007-01-26 17:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by yiohon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a date with him. Even if it isn't formal(or he doesn't know about it). Try to work things out to do alone with him. Things will either work themselves out, or not.
2007-01-26 18:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by soulfuljim1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dreams are wishful thinking, thoughts completing themselves into something that pleases you. however i would listen to your friends. they are probably right about him liking you.
2007-01-26 17:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by jbd8988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋