I really like this guy, and he's the bad boy type that always is in trouble. Whenever I'm around him, I feel really nauseous. I don't know why. How can I make an excuse to call him if i do? What if he asks how I got his number?
2007-01-26 16:36:04 · 9 answers · asked by Hehe. ;]] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then you tell him, you have already made your choice at this point your just asking and killing time while working up the nerve to call.
-NmD!
2007-01-26 16:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip calling him, till you know him better- but here are a few ways to get to know him better:
(1) Volunteer to work on a community activity. Ask him if he will come with you- or meet you there. You can "officially' be asking for the sake of the work, but it is still a great way to get to know him. And, maybe he won't be in trouble. : c )
(2) Find something he does well, and convince him to help you with that- or help a friend, and you go along. For example, if he is strong, he could help with carrying any item anywhere, or moving equipment for any function. Just walk up and ask him.
(3) Find out where he lives. Walk by with a girlfirend or a sister, and wave hello as you happen to walk by.
(4) Here's one I pulled, successfully, to get to know a guy: I walked over to him at lunch, and handed him a note in code. I can't even remember what I put into it, but he spent about half an hour decoding it, before he encrypted a reply back.
(5) The next time he is in trouble, if this is high school and he has detention, stay after school for extra help. See if the teacher will let him work with you on the material. Often, teachers are happy to do that, because it gets a student to studying! Then, get to talking to him. If you get into a discussion about studying together, maybe he will give you his number.
Remember to be safe. If he really is a good boy who just can't sit still in school, then there isn't much risk. Still, always bring enough money for cab fare home if you go out with anyone, so that you find it easier to say "no". Call home at-say- eleven (or earlier on school nights), whether you need to or not- because that way, he will have the impression that your family cares. And, if you still are in high school, let your family know where you are- and let them meet him- because he wil treat you right if he knows that they care, and that you will share your evening with them.
2007-01-26 17:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Asking&Receiving 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you in like high school or some thing? if you are do what i do. agree to partner up with him in a group project or something and pretend to call him about the project. then start talking about whatever. if he asks you where you got his phone number say you got it out of the phone book.
2007-01-26 16:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason you feel nauseous is because you hardly knwo him. get to know him, and don't immediately judge someone. he may get into troulble a lotl, but every one has their problems, but they can be a great person once you get to know him. i think you should talk to him at school first before you call him, since he did not give you his number, but you dound it another way.
good luck in your endeavor=] <3
2007-01-26 16:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. what grade are you in? I know how it feels.. well i never had much luck with badboys anyways. They're fun at first but sooner or later you'll realize that they're really not all that. So yeah, um just go after him.. after all he is a bad boy.
2007-01-26 16:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by augustina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you call a guy who when you are around him you feel sick? That sounds really dumb to me. Doesn't it sound dumb to you. The only reason I think that you feel sick is because you are overly attractived to him in a physical way and it makes you ill to think that you are likely to let him "do" you. Just my woman's intuition.
2007-01-26 16:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very easy sweety...dont call him directly.if u both r in same school/college just sometimes say hi hello...try to find out his interests/hobbies & ask questions related to that...& later just ask if u can call him in case of difficulty.
2007-01-26 16:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by shweta - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u really lyk him and if he asks just say u need a homework assignment and say u got his # from a friend
2007-01-26 16:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the dude...bad boys are bad news. Heartache and anger is all you'll get from him.
2007-01-26 16:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Devil Gal 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋