I am international grad student, but right now, i am suffering lonlyness really much, iv been suffering , since finished a short relationship with a guy i liked around half mounth ago? all good friends are far apart from me, i kinda myself alone here, And i still miss that guy a lot, although he hurted me....i am still waitting his call txt wotever, (And I am sure its not gonna happen), it is really pathetic, I hate myself being this way. i became negativea about everthing, cry a lot, become needy. i miss him.................cant deny....................
2007-01-26 16:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by a girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, being lonely is becoz urnt doing enuf... at uni why not join clubs? attend gigs and stuff
go have fun meet ppl make new frends!
trust me time heals all... u just need to stop moanin and keep thinkin about him - get ur mind busy and off him BY Doing stuf for urself!!
dnt w8 around for his txt.. jst move on! trust me it ll be OKAY! :)
plus if hurt u earlier, wat does that shw about him? - that he isnt a gud person!
2007-01-26 22:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by YabbaJabba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am living in a forign country too and it can really be hard at times when your family and old friends are elsewhere. Just get yourself out there and make some new ones..there are new friends out there and boyfriends waiting to happen but not if you wont let it. Forget about the old boyfriend and move on to better things. If he hurt you he isnt worth dwelling over and maybe this is a chance for somthing better but you wont find it if you dont look.
2007-01-27 01:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS FREEDOM. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU SO WHY OBLIGE HIM TO LOVE YOU? WHEN LOVE IS INFINIT IMPOSIBLE BECOMES EASILY POSIBLE. LOVE AND ONE DAY YOU WILL ATRACT LOVE. IN THE PAST YOU MADE THE SAME MISTAKE AS YOUR LOVER ,SO YOU MUST FEEL NOW THE LONLYNESS. THE UNIVERSE IS PERFECT. ASK AND YOU WILL BE GIVEN.WHEN YOU ASK FOR LOVE IMAGINE THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE WHAT YOU NEED.
OUR MIND CREATES THE REALITY. A WISE MAN SAID:"YOU CAN CAST ME IN THE HELL BUT YOU WILL NOT TAKE THE PARADISE WICH EXIST INSIDE ME"
IMAGINE THAT YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU WILL BE. BE POSITIVE ! LOOK YOU HAVE AN ANSWER FROM UNIVERSE.
EVEN NOW SOMEONE FROM THE EARTH LOVE YOU, THIS IS ME.SOME TIME AGO I WAS LIKE YOU BUT NOW I'M HAPPY.I DESCOVERYS THE LAW OF UNIVERSE. LOVE ATRACT LOVE. HATE ATRACT HATE. SO YOU MUST LOVE ALL ! WHAT ARE YOU WAITNG FOR? JUST LOVE NO MATTER WHAT OR WHY....LOVE. I LOVE YOU !!!
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2007-01-27 02:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by goraknath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a foreign student and feeling this way only one thing to do, pack your bags and go home. homesickness will tear you up inside and it isnt worth it. been there done it and hated every single second of my stay outside of my country so i left at the nearest opportunity. but on the bright side it made me appreciate even more what i left behind and what i have now.
2007-01-27 05:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be soft, certainly having a partner is not the be all and end all. Enjoy being single, get your *** out and about and take the highs and lows as they come.
2007-01-27 00:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dana S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay strong and be strong. i knw its hard in a foreign countruy but hey, make new freinds and u will gain confidence to hit everything that comes ur way. take it easy and make new friends in the uni library. they will support u and care for u.
2007-01-27 04:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel cause this down comes to me sometimes too
i dont know what u can do , all say keep ur mind busy , do something , go out ...... but i think its only getting better with time and sometimes u have to go through all this in order to get out
2007-01-27 04:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sad you need to get out and join a club of some sort. thats a great way to meet someone new. good luck
2007-01-27 05:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check these out...
A cool look at the nature of existence and our purpose in life.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0drT_L4G8w8
What Is The True Nature Of Humankind?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPodvGwHnKY
Suffering...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D-2IIEh6fu4
2007-01-31 00:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by mmhhhhhmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
times like this when you have to open your eyes
youll notice other people around you that you have looked over, like friends or possible other partners.
people you have known, but didnt really think of
2007-01-27 00:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋