She promised me she was bi but I have been doing her housework for her, buying her outfits, cooking her dinner for the last 9 months but so far she only lets me kiss her below her ankles. Her girlfriend thinks its really funny, at least I think she does because they both laugh alot when I am around doing their housework. But I just can't stop loving her. Is there anything else I should do for her so that she might accept me as something more?
2007-01-26 15:45:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have been taken my Friend...sorry
2007-01-26 15:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smoothie, aka Mr. SmartAss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the solution to your problem is whether you are willing to love someone who is using you, while making fun of you with her real lover.
in other words, you don't have any place in her heart other than her servant. if she really CARED about you she wouldn't have been making fun of you by denying you what you want but allowing another person what you want.
she is only playing with you. you said that you cant stop. do you mean you are obsessed with her or are you infatuated?
leave the house for some time, go on a holiday and meet new people. you might find some unexpected revelations.
if you prefer to be her slave and nothing else, i think you are on the right track....
but there might be someone out there waiting to meet you, or trying to catch your eye as desperately as you are trying to catch the attention of the person you think you are in love with...... ie there is another person who is feeling the same as you are...
leave the place for a short time and allow your thoughts to settle down...... after all, the decision is yours.
2007-01-26 16:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by musharrat_tasnuva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could tell you that she would change, but in that state and what she is doing to you right now-----you only have 11 percent to say that she will stop liking women , she has a girlfriend, for her all she needs is another girl to complete her, you seriously cannot compete with hormones and the way her thoughts are.
i know its hard, and you really love her.but there is nothing you can do that could make her love you more.i know deep inside she is wondering why you are doing this, but if she will ever love you its probably when she is already 60 years old and alone, can you wait that long
2007-01-26 16:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has a girlfriend?? You are soooo being used! Why would you do that to yourself??? Don't you have anyself respect??? Just stop doing stuff for her NOW! Maybe that will make her fall for you ( I know somegirls it would...) But even if it doesn't, you need to stop because you are wasting your time and money and making yourself look ridiculous in the process. Respect yourself!!
2007-01-26 15:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like her and her girlfriend just might be using you, sorry. There's nothing you can do but confront her about it.
2007-01-26 15:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise her with a kiss,in the lips of course,dont let her go just hug her tight.
2007-01-26 15:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
I do hope you're kidding.
2007-01-26 15:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋