Met a very nice man online. We chatted for a week, talked on the phone for several hours every night for a week, then today we met. He told me he thinks I could be the one he has been looking for. I am flattered but nervous..Oppinions?
2007-01-26 15:31:34 · 21 answers · asked by cflmn71 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
act natural, be natural, dont get nervous, dont think too much about what he said, just let it flow,dont take things seriously, just enjoy his company, if you turn out to be really good friends then perhaps lovers then that is a bonus, you would seriously have complications and problems if you worry too much, just be sure he is the genuine thing and that he is really really nice, dont trust that easily, but dont doubt all the time either, check and balance should be present, enjoy that youve met someone nice,dont put too much pressure
2007-01-26 15:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time Get him To take you out to Dinner, Having a Conversation in Coffee Shops Sounds like Fun. But if hes really Serious, Go home with him to His Nice house. Sounds like the 2 of you Will soon Fall in Love if he Starts to Give you Gifts, And Meets your Friends, able to be Counted on. With otrher things in your life, The grass, The Chores, Painting, Travels, Good Conversationalist. Gives you Some Space also. cheers , Congradulations For the Love affair.
2007-01-26 15:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by champcar01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how much do you know about his past? You need to dig for info, maybe from other sources that him, to find out if there was someone/something else that could have made him clingy, crazy, etc. But you two have talked for awhile, so he could sincerely feel this way about you! Just don't jump into anything! Good luck.
2007-01-26 15:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by pngstar06@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really nice lady. I sounds wierd that your boyfriend would want to marry in just a couple days. What you should do is scrapbook with him. REAL men scrapbook! If he was really in love with you, he would scrapbook with you. Go to a store with him and buy a bunch of scrapbbok supplies then go to your parents house and start scrapbooking together. It's the only way to find out if he loves you. I do that with all my girls I ask to marry. I haven't found the right one yet, but I will soon.
2007-01-26 15:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nick Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be a little nervous too. Tell him that while your flattered, you feel like he's wanting to take things faster than you're ready to. See if he backs off. If he really thinks your the one, he will.
2007-01-26 15:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell before you're ready to change your last name, make sure he's the one for you and that it's love not just flattery that draws you to him. Becuase flattery can go a long way, but the truth last forever. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-26 15:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. How could one possible know that you are "the one" after a week of chatting. For all you know he could be some sort of freak.
2007-01-26 15:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by more61077 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be slightly wary - in that a lot of guys might say this. Get to know him first before you commit to a relationship. Good luck and hope it works out!
2007-01-26 15:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his crazy.. be careful in meeting these kinds of people and never be too sure.. first you just met and how sure are you that he is telling the truth?! he may be some crazy guy or a simple player on the loose.. be careful..
2007-01-26 15:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by tin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for for what hun? scary! has anyone else told you that after a week? I suggest you a more wary!
2007-01-26 15:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋