I do not want to because I have only known him for 1 month and I know he will break up with me if I don't What do I do?
2007-01-26 15:30:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants me to have sex with him
2007-01-26 15:35:31 · update #1
He is too cute to break up with and I know he is what keeps me in line. If he is gone I will be torn in two. I never want to break up with him.
2007-01-26 15:37:35 · update #2
He obviously does not respect your limits. If you give in you will lose on two fronts. First of all, you will lose your own self respect because you dropped your standards to a primal, animalistic level and love will have NOTHING to do with it. Second of all, he may just look at you as another conquest and move on.
If you don't respect yourself enough to stand firm and he doesn't respect you enough to enjoy you for who you are without a physical relationship. . . you are well done with him because you will lose him anyway.
Sex will NOT win him permanently, but it will lose him if you give in.
2007-01-26 15:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT!!! If you don't feel its right then it's not. And if sex your talking about please don't do it. He should respect you and wait. And since you know he will break up with you then it's he is not worth it. Your better than that trust me. He only wants one thing and since your not ready well just see what happens and if he dumps you he lost a good girl. There is allot of guys out there wanting sex and some are not. I have a wonderful guy who waited for me. Don't have sex and if your still a virgin that's totally cool I don't care what friends say and peer presure Cuz you will be the one who don't get pregnant early or have a STD. And it's worth the wait . Sex aint everything. It can be good i wont lie but its when you truley love someone and they love you back and been together a long long time. If you want to talk feel free to email me. I been in your shoes i know how you feel. All the presure and everything. But that don't mean you have to do it. It's your body your rights. And if he don't like it Oh well.
2007-01-26 15:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by everlasting_matchstick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sheesh, how young are you? There are going to be plenty of "cute" guys in your life - don't give it up, just to stop one jerk from breaking up with you. If he only is keeping you around on the chance of having sex with you, then he's not worth it - no matter how cute he is!!
2007-01-26 15:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pressure you, if you are not ready for the next step and you take that step trying to keep him you will regret it. If he breaks up with it is his loss and he was only after one thing anyway. You will find someone better.
2007-01-26 15:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for it then don't do it! If he breaks up with you(Then you move on to find someone else better!) because of this reason then this means that he is not a good guy and that he might only be using you because of that reason!
Good luck with your decision and DO think about yourself!!
2007-01-26 15:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dont Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says you'll lose him if you don't have sex, you're going to lose him soon after you give in and have sex.
He'll be done with you.
I'm sorry if this seems cruel, but I was like him, and you should see him as he is.
It took me a long while to grow up and start to worry about what I was doing to other people's feelings. I hurt several women.
I was selfish and so is he.
2007-01-26 16:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by dropkick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is too soon to be messing around much at all...If he'll break up with you over you saying no about something like that then he doesn't care about you and you should dump him.
2007-01-26 15:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's only been a month and you're not ready let him break up with you. he's a jerk if he does and it won't matter. there is no use in being with someone if that's their main priority. tell him he should wait until you are ready, talk to him about it. and if you aren't comfortable enough to talk to him about it you definately shouldn't be doing it.
2007-01-27 01:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by downs1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will probably break up if you do.You are not ready.Do NOT do it.If he isnt willing to wait (even a year or more) then he is not worth it.Not all guys are the same.
2007-01-26 15:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and realize the truth that you never had him in the first place if he will just up and leave over something that will happen with time.
2007-01-26 15:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by laurayvonne113 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋