Am evil or these are normal thoughts?

Question

ok...I am jealous woman and my boyfriend who works at a restaurant is surrounded by a lot of waitresses who are b*tches so when i really want to go eat there some day with him and dress up very sexy and elegant ..like always...and when ones of those sl*ts comes to serve us..I would love to humilliate her..throw red wine over her white blouse..(accidently of course) put my feet in their way so that could fall with all their food trays...hmmm what else? oh if they smile or say hi t my bf I'd say "oh hi..you're the fat wh*re that boyfriend can't stand right?" ....and many more things...also any other girl that gets in my way I'd find ways to destroy their lives...flat their tires...make them get fired...i don't know...a lot of things....to torture them and make them go away..I hate all the sl*ts of the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hate them

Answer 1

seems to me that you dont trust your bf and if you do that then you're just being childish and think about him not just you and the red wine thing? how in the world would that be accidental? and no those arent normal thoughts......have more faith in your relationship and stop being so jelaous that isnt an attractive quality in anybody and he might hate you if you do that and dump you!

Answer 2

These are very normal thoughts for a jealous, insecure woman. Hey it's cool, I respect that, but I have a question for you. Do you trust your boyfriend? I know women suck and all but .. I have this issue with girls who get mad at another woman for flirting or having sexual relations with there man, and don't get mad at the man himself and keep trying to fight for his affection and just plain out try to fight the other woman. It takes two to tango. And also you are way to open in your villain ways. I'd take it down just a notch especially around him. If you are dating someone, would you want them freaking out on you all the time like you are freaking out on him, or would it be more intriguing for you to not know what he was thinking, ya know like a challenge. If he was in a constant jealous rage would you be happy? Wouldn't you start to see all the flaws in him? You let him know all the things you are intimidated by, doesn't that empower him to one day possibly use your emotions against you. Get some farking confidence and shut the fark up! You are a psycho, and you need to see how insecure you are. Everyone else does!

Answer 3

All you would accomplish by doing that is that you would be perceived by these women as being insecure and your relationship with your boyfriend as unstable. I know it might be hard, but the best revenge would be to dress to kill so that your boyfriend feels like the luckiest guy on the planet to be seen with you, and then behave with such class and kindness that if those other women say or do anything inappropriate, THEY are the ones who look insecure and slutty - not you. Be a lady about this - it will pay off and those women you speak of will be the ones who look bad if they behave poorly. Trust me. I know what I am talking about.

Answer 4

Ha, ha, ha, ha that is so cute!!. Don't worry, you are not evil, all those h*ores, sl*ts and b*tches are, ha, ha, ha. It's normal to be jealous if your bf is surrounded by women, and it's also normal to have such thoughts, we all do, just as long as you don't DO them, then you're alright. If you act on them, see a teraphist, you'll get over it

Answer 5

You are a very insecure, not bad, just very insecure about your self. I think you might want to talk to a professional counselor or psychologist about these thoughts. Again, you are not a bad person, just very insecure. This type of thinking and jealousy is more likely to destroy your current relationship than any other female.

Answer 6

well first of all you dont sound like you know them so maybe they are not so bad at all, maybe they would be normal girls if you knew them. maybe your boyfriend exaggerates or deliberatly tells you bad things about them to make you jealous or something. they arent evil thoughts necessarily but think about how much time and energy you are wasting on someone you dont even know. you should try to focus on how to make yourself and others around you happy instead of how to destroy lives. wouldnt' you feel better if you didn't sit around stewing thinking angry thoughts? maybe tell your boyfriend that you dont want to hear so much about other girls since it upsets you. boys are tricky, alot of times they set things up so girls get jealous or fight over them. just be a lady, ignore them and go about your own business. definetly dont do anything that is just going to make drama or get you arrested.

Answer 7

Dont worry those are so normal thoughts! But i kinda think that you only feel that way cuz ur feelin kinda feelin insecure about him and like i think you should loosen up and talk to ur bf about it and make sure that he wouldnt cheat on u or anything! But if u feel like it and ur sure that u wudnt get in trouble or anything u should reek ur crazy havic on the sluts!!!!!

Answer 8

Hello,
WoW. you really do have this jealousy in you, don't you? well the easiest answer is to get your feller to quit this job, and find work where he is amongst his own sex, but would that suit you and him? you can get councelling for jealousy, see the real expert in your case, this expert is your boyfriend, he can assure you if he is honest and you love him enough to believe him. It's no use you even being in love with a man so much that you are prepared to go to all the trouble of injuring someone 'accidentally' just to prove to everyone he is YOUR MAN, he is honest enough to tell them himself, but if you know for sure they are laying themselves on a plate for him, so much, that he actually goes ahead and eats it, then Honey, get out of that relationship, it is on a ride straight to hell and gone,
I am married to the woman of my dreams for over 42 years, and never once did I take any tid-bits on the side, I didn't need to, My wife makes sure I am in love by being every kind of love this man ever needed, wanted, or loved right back at her.
Be assured by this man, Jealousy will drive you not only crazy, but apart, then get angry at yourself, for you will only have yourself to blame, do a bit of deep breathing, and learn to relax, your man knows, you love him, you don't need to carry the banner, that reads " He's mine, hands off, all you bitches of the world" talk to him in low dulcet tones, and he will assure you too.

behave yourself, and stay in love, it's wonderful...... Tony M

Answer 9

I'm sorry for you. Too late you learn that what goes around, comes around. With a mentality like yours, it's no wonder we can't see a lasting peace in the world!

Answer 10

normal thoughts, but don't act on them, then you're just behaving like an immature ***** yourself.....tell your bf how it makes you feel first, if he understands he will be on your side, if he thinks you're just a jealous crazy girl he'll wanna talk to these coworkers some more for advice on what to do with you, and then when you go there they'll just be laughing to themselves about you...