Do you think there is a perfect soulmate out there for everyone or do you think thats just a fantasy!!!
2007-01-26 15:26:28 · 21 answers · asked by Lozza J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no perfect anything. And there is no happily ever after...relationships take work and lots of love.
The Idea of a perfect soulmate is fantasy!
2007-01-26 15:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Barb 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I do not believe there is only one person for each of us. I feel there are many individuals that could make successful pairs but we have a choice. Everyone has the good and the bad and we each have to decide what we can and cannot live with. If we fall for someone that has faults that are just too trying for us to accept, it will not work out. The two could be together they just won't be as happy as they could be with someone that has faults that aren't as big of a deal to the partner. We choose. We choose what we can live with and what we can't. We choose what level of happiness is enough and what level of happiness isn't enough for us. I do believe we have perfect soulmates. I do believe there is someone for everyone. Just not ONLY ONE person for each of us. Soulmates are partners in sync with us and our feelings, our thoughts, our ways, our wants, our needs, our very being. We are fortunate to find a soulmate. Some find theirs and after tragedy, find another. It's timing, fate, determination to never give up, it's a choice. Yours is out here somewhere and if you're in tune with your spirit and your own soul, you will seek out that soulmate that you describe. No fantasy about it! Be aware, be ready and be picky. That is how soulmates are found. Love to you both!
2007-01-26 23:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's perfect but I believe a good match is out there. Just think of all the people you know, some are easy to spend time with and others are more challenging. A soul mate to me is someone that you want to spend time with and your relationship is easy. Don't fall for the Disney version of love.
2007-01-26 23:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by cynical jade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its a nice thing to think about but i dont think there is a soul mate because every relationship takes work and every relationship has its fights, by saying there is a soul mates is saying the relationship is just so easy and everything comes so natural, but that not the truth if u want to make a relationship work u have to fight for it. so no i don't belive in soulmates, but i do believe in dating the right people which u will learn through time and experince and lots of dating and u will find that right or best person for your character.
2007-01-26 23:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I absolutely believe! I am engaged to my soulmate. We have a lot in common, we understand each other without having to work at it, we accept and love each other unconditionally, and our personalities are similar. We don't argue, and when we disagree with one another, we are patient and we listen to the other's point of view because we have love and respect for each other. We don't have to work at our relationship because it just flows, and we just click in every area. Why is this? Because we are soulmates. YES - I believe it is possible to find your soulmate!
2007-01-26 23:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's real and I'm proof. It was my first day of college and I heard a soft voice behind me. Something in my chest constricted and I thought that I was having a heart attack. Not figuratively, I mean that I REALLY felt pain in my chest. I turned around to see this cute woman. It took a while, but we started to date. After graduation, she moved home, ove 6,000 miles away!
Oh, I should mention that we are not kids. I am 36 and was getting a second degree. She was 31 and was getting a degree in English. Because of her family and citizenship problems, she could not live here, so after much heartache trying to live without her, I finally went to be with her. I worked very hard and after a few years we got married and I am REALLY happy!
So to those who don't believe, I can only say this...
YOU ARE WRONG!!! IT'S REAL!!!
2007-01-27 01:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone for everyone who was meant to be with someone. If you don't have a "perfect soul mate" just means you were from who were not meant for anyone....or just one of the people that think its a fantasy.
2007-01-26 23:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think there is a perfect soul mate out there but what humans may deem as perfect may cloud the mind and cause people to miss out on their soul mate.
2007-01-26 23:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Breeze 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe! but I might just be biased, because I have found my Soulmate...
2007-01-26 23:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i do think so.there always the perfect soulmate for everyone,that's not fantasy,that's true!!!!10000% that's true
2007-01-26 23:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♣ Jeany ♠ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋