Mine was, "Were you trying to have twins?"
2007-01-26 15:23:03 · 24 answers · asked by Lewis 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Wow.. that's pretty stupid.. exactly HOW does a person TRY to have twins?!?!?!
When I was 8 months pg on.. i was rather large..and people would see me standing there and they would ask.."Are you still pregnant?".. and i wanted to say.. "Are you still stupid??"
2007-01-26 15:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by kris_mom_of_4_girls 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can't remember the stupidest thing said from my first pregnancy, but I had a stupid question at the doctors office (or at least I thought it was stupid). Because of financial and insurance reasons I wasn't able to get to the Dr until I was 20 weeks pregnant. The medical assistant asked me if I was planning on having an abortion after she already knew that I have a son.
My thought was if I am 20 weeks pregnant seeking prenatal care, do you really think I am going to have an abortion? I get they have to ask it but come on after 20 weeks it should be kind of obvious that I want the baby.
2007-01-26 23:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy of 2 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So far it has been "Oh, you're pregnant and you can still work?!"
However, I HAVE to share the stupidest thing that was EVER said to me... now you have to know that 6 years ago my fiancee was killed. Very sad and tragic, but be prepared to laugh.
I was with his brother about 2 years ago and ran into a friend of the families from a LONG time ago that I'd never met. She asked the brother if I was HIS girlfriend, to which the response was "No, she was suppose to marry "joe" but now she's just part of the family." The woman looks at me and says "Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that dear, so were you dating him before or after he died?"
Wish I'd had a camera for that!
2007-01-27 00:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a mom of 5 the stupidiest question people always asked was are you going to have anymore, are you done yet. Or during my first pregnancy I looked literally like I had a torpedo on my stomach because my daughter was a complete breech they would pat my belly and say to me are you having triplets, doesn't look like theres anymore room in there.
I think people tend to not understand that somethings are just rude to say. I always come back with if I only had one child you wouldn't ask if I was going to have more. Now when I take all 5 out ranging in age from 14 down to 14 months and someone asks me if I'm crazy and going to have more I tell them yep were trying to compete with the Duggars who have 16.
Beth
2007-01-26 23:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by danniella0802 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was like 7 months pregnant, I was sitting outside my doctors office waiting for my mother in law to pick me up, cause my boyfriend was working , a old lady was sitting on the bench to....she said oh honey, i'm sorry.....did the father leave you? I of course said no he's at work....then she continued to ask question....like, how old are you and the father, are we in love, are we keeping the baby etc. (nosey ppl) what I felt like saying was I don't know the father it was a one night stand thing with a couple guys, but the nice person I am I got suckered in, luckly my Aunt walked through the door, and saved me I walked with her to the doctors waiting room, and waited there for my ride.
Oh another stupid thing was like 3 weeks after I had the baby, I was somewhere with him, and someone rubbed my belly and asked me if I was pregnant again..........HELLO NO
2007-01-26 23:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by nlmomma23 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you gained weight is the stupidist thing I was asked. I said I'm pregnant what am I supposed to do lose? What's funny is I am just bulgy but have not gained weight. Boy that was rude and not very tactful. I would have rather me be asked am I pregnant...at least that would have been better than are you getting fat :)
12 weeks and 5 days.
2007-01-26 23:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I was waiting in the check out line at Babies R Us (with a cart FULL of diapers, wipes, onesies, new born clothing, etc.) some female customer asked me if I was pregnant. I had about 3 weeks to go and was all belly and boobs. Hello??
2007-01-26 23:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
" Is there 2 or 3 of you standing there?" I was very large with my pregnancies. Because I am so short waisted, there is nowhere for the baby and equipment to go but out
2007-01-27 01:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there was this cuban guy that worked in a booth at the mall i was working at...i walked daily by his booth and he was always flirting and saying stupid stuff to me. then when i was about 8ms along i had this huge belly all up in front. And as usual i walked by the booth and THEN was when he realized i was pregnant, he asked...how long have yyou been knocked up?
my reply was...almost the full 9 ms you blind dumba**!
LOL
2007-01-26 23:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by phoenixgirl21 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you know who the father is?
Ok, I was 19 when i had my first, but just because I was young didn't mean I was "loose". This from a complete stranger in a line-up at the grocery store.
Actually, I fired back "it was divine conception". Shut the nosy hag up :)
2007-01-26 23:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by aquiellez 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋