Ok I have been seeing this guy(4th guy I have dated) for almost a year now. He has played more games with me and I don't play any games with him. He says he loves me and that I am a good woman. Also he says he wants to be with me and then doesn't call me. Well I know he doesn't cheat and that his past his exs cheated on me and he used to being alone. I am a real woman knows what she wants and don't play games and has no kids; surviving in a town with no family. Are there any guys out there that know what they want and want a real woman?
2007-01-26 15:15:16 · 15 answers · asked by cherokee.diamond 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girlfriend u are preaching to the choir. I have the same problem but i have dated this guy for 2 years and he still does not know what he wants one day he is talking about he future with me and the next day he gives me a weird look when i mention the future. I just don't know either. i think some guys are just too scared to go after what they really want and so are always undeceive, there just scared to make the plunge or whatever. maybe he is scared of getting hurt if he gets too close to u.
2007-01-26 15:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going thru. I'm dating this guy and i'm a damn good woman but its like he sees me and he don't. We have been together for a while now and he would rather play video games instead of spending time with me even though he claims to love me and wants to marry me. I'm trying to hang in there cause I do like him and he maybe the one so don't give up. There is someone out there for the both of us cause I can only give this guy so may times and then its the boot.
2007-01-26 23:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alas, most guys know what they want.... its just unfortunate that the want is more short term and in terms of immediate gratification.
There are good men out there... the question I think you're asking is "why can't I find a man who wants to settle down and have a meaningful relationship?" If you met the last four (including this one) in a similar place/situation - might be time to look elsewhere.
2007-01-26 23:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by going_crazy_30m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No to the 1st yes to the 2nd. Men are weird and the only reason theyre here is cuz theyre sexiii. instead of askin random people on the internet why dont u ask him urself, maybe its just that he has sum quality that he doesnt want u to see in fear that it may lead to u cheatin on him like a big hairy mole on his back.
lol i am sooooooooooooooo funny
2007-01-26 23:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nyci B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, but the kind of men you attract show what kind of person you are. Remember that sweetie. Maybe you're subconciously playing games. Or maybe your subconciously picking losers, where are you finding all you're men? You figure out that and then you'll recognize your problem babe. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-26 23:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We know what we want, it's just not what you want us to want. Girls think that just because you know that you want to get married, have kids and a house, that makes you somehow smarter than guys. And you think that just because a guy doesn't want to commit his entire life to some girl before he's had a chance to experience life that we're immature. You need to face the facts of life, guys and girls want different things out of life. You're not stupid for wanting what you want and we're not stupid for wanting what we want.
2007-01-26 23:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you to know what you want instead of wondering how to please a guy who has no clue about himself.
I don't know your age or where you are from, and that may be important here, but keep thinking aas you do and you will come out way ahead:)
Good luck
2007-01-26 23:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go looking for gold, expect to find a lot of worthless stones first.
2007-01-26 23:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You live around Boston?
2007-01-26 23:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to stop dating boys.
2007-01-26 23:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋