well there's this guy that i really like. he used to talk to me and stuff, but now he doesn't. when i send him messages on myspace he reads them, but doesn't answer back. we're both in the same grade, but not in many classes together. he knows that i like him. he's known since at least three months ago. when he does talk to me he'll just say hey, or bye. when i am around him he just ignores me. i asked him if he was mad at me but he said no. what do you think it means? do you think i should get over him or not? i really need some help. it would mean a lot to me!
2007-01-26 14:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by Aqueus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry he's just not into you..you should get the book"he's just not into you" by greg berndhart(?) i dont know if thats how you spell his last name.anyway,get the book and it will help you in the future,good luck
2007-01-26 14:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on just for yourself. It's very obvious that he's either exploring other options, or thinks that maybe you are just a little too much right now.
You can't win em all trust me, so it'll feel better if YOU are the one not sending messages! You already know he isn't going to respond, so why waste your time? Might as well use that time to find someone else or do something else :)
2007-01-26 22:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by kswildangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would lay it onthe line. Tell him you want to date him and that if he is not interested your going to look elsewhere. Life is too short to not seize the day. Making the first move is like Vegas Its all a gamble but dont be hung up on somebody who may not be into you. Dont worry about getting rejected and being embarrased your true friends wont care and will support you.
Good Luck
2007-01-26 22:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this might hurt, but I think he is trying to make his point clear to you. He likes you......but not that way. It looks like he just wants to be friends with you. I wouldn't ask if his mad at your or anything like that because guys don't like this type of question. It might seem simple to you because you are a girl, but guys don't see it that way. It's just too complicated for them. I say move on, you'll get over it.
2007-01-26 22:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont really know where to start.
I really liked this guy who lives in melbourne and i live in queensland but he didnt like me.
&& then i was getting over him when he told me he liked me.
But i had a bf so i wasnt even concidering dating him.
Then me n my bf broke up && i realised i still had feelings for him.
But he didnt like me & till this day i still remain liking him but he doesnt feel the same way back.
I guess this means that maybe you need to stop trying for him to like you. Ino its extremely hard and all but its the only option sometimes. Im sorry if this isnt whatyou wanted in an answer.
GOODLUCK. xx.
2007-01-26 22:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep i feel like he doesnt really like you that much right now. If not, he might like someone else and doesnt want them to think he has a girlfriend or a good friend thats a girl.
2007-01-26 22:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by Troubled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesnt SEEM like he likes you give him a couple of weeks and if things do not change, definitely get over him
2007-01-26 22:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jalan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.... either hes playing hard to get or hes not in to you.... just let him go.... and if he wants you let him chase you.... or you could just tell him you like him again and ask him do he have the same feelings for you.... just don't chase him
2007-01-26 22:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he liked you, he'd make more of an effort than that. just move on, meet more guys in ur life
2007-01-26 22:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by xckid62 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave that horse alone, before it kicks you...
2007-01-26 22:07:06 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋