he says something about me playing with his emotions?
2007-01-26 13:55:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry, i wont do it.
i'm kinda new to this relationship thing so i was just wondering if i was being selfish.
2007-01-26 14:02:24 · update #1
and no i'm not teasing him.
2007-01-26 14:03:31 · update #2
He is the one playing with your emotions. Dont let him manipulate you into doing something you dont want.
He sounds like hes more interested in using you for sex than caring about how you feel. Is that the kind of guy you want?
2007-01-26 13:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look all this just dump him stuff is nonsense how can they know about your relationship from one sentence.
He wants you i've been there and whilst he should respect your decisions. You shoud consider his feeling also, is it really that bad that he is so physically attracted to you he is practically on his knees?
If your not ready you are not ready and he will have to accept it. But if you are doing "other stuff" that naturally leads to intercourse then he's going to be hoping thats were it will lead. That is natural because he is ready.
I would refrain from anything too intimate untill you have a good long heart to heart and make a decision together.
Good luck.
2007-01-26 14:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having intercourse is up to you, you have the right to say no. Boys has a way of making up all kinds of things to get into a girls pants. He may be just trying to prove he can do this. Be careful, have respect for yourself first. If he does not have respect for you saying no to him, then you need to find a bf that does.
2007-01-26 14:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only advice I can give you is that angeleyes is a c*nt.
These peopple are dumbfucks. If you listen to them, I hope they are all there when you are lonely for, as they recommend, dumping him.
Have a sense of humor! Talk to him about it! Take it as a compliment! Guys get mad at being frustrated, and if you had an ounce of a sex drive, you would too.
2007-01-26 14:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not a teenager that is under pressure by someone you won't even remember in 10 years.
Stand your ground and don't give in. This is your life make your on decisions don't let someone force you into something you will regret later.
2007-01-26 14:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shade Tree Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right. It sounds like you are using sex to tease him. Not a good thing to do when you're that young, because if you withhold sex from him too long then he WILL get it somewhere else.
2007-01-26 14:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, if he cares about you he wouldn't make you feel guilty if your not ready, and he would understand that! Anyway, he shouldn't be asking you that in the first place! Not if he really likes/loves you. The only time that should happen is within marriage.
2007-01-26 14:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by seasons.change.but.people.dont 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a poor excuse to manipulate you,and tell you to do,what he want all time.He is playing with you.Better for you is, to find a man who will respect you,and who will love you indeed.He only want to have sex with you,and nothing else.
2007-01-26 14:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, i keep having thesame situation too...u need to let him go...that means thats where his emphasis is in his relationship...he doesnt respect u and if he does, he'll respect u and wait for u...boys try to get u wit all that emotion crap...can u believe my ex told me he wanted 2 have intercourse wit me the first day we started going out...and then he got mad later on saying that i dont love/like him.
2007-01-26 14:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, were you? if you were dropping hints that you wanted to go all the way and coming on really strongly, he may feel quite the fool when you refused
otherwise, he's just being horny and you guys either need to talk it out, or break it up
2007-01-26 14:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Tala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋