I still think about my ex Andy, and his best friend, Thomas, and I like them both. When I went out with Andy, I was thinking about Thomas but never told him. I just ignored it like I should've and moved on. Well this guy Peter, asked me out yesterday, and now I think about Andy! Andy and I broke up in November, and I got over Thomas for a little bit, but now I'm back to liking him again... and I still have strong feelings for Andy as well. So, I never went out with Thomas, only Andy but now that Andy and I broke up in November, and I got another bf, all I stress over is Andy and Thomas. Help!
2007-01-26 13:45:55 · 6 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant ask out Andy again, we still like eachother, but said we probably wouldnt go out again... and Thomas says I'm not really his type and we dont talk anymore, and neither do I and Andy.
2007-01-26 13:52:14 · update #1
If you are happy with your bf and like him, keep him, but if you don't like him, dump him and ask out Andy or thomas
2007-01-26 13:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Andy wanted you , he would be there. I say, keep options open, there are a lot of fish in the sea. In a few years, you may not even remember the name Andy, if you do, you will probably laugh about how dumb you was back then.
2007-01-26 13:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to concentrate on one person. its hard to do, but you gotta figure out who you want to be with and who you really like and who you're just crushing on. for all you kno it could just be a phase that you're thinking about your ex... but then also your ex's best friend? =/ whatever decision you make, either to break up with your present boyfriend.. and be with thomas. or to come back to andy... make sure its a decision from your heart. follow what its tellin you to do.
just sit back and eat some ice cream & listen to some happy music and you'll do the right thing. good lucky girlie.
2007-01-26 13:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, complete-ness comes from inside yourself, not from what any guy likes/loves about you. If you don't get a good hold on yourself, kid, you're gonna find the dating scene a real challenge. Get to know who YOU are so you can project your wholeness to the guys you meet. You'll be much happier and your relationships won't be so hard to figure out.
2007-01-26 14:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to back out of this vicious cycle all together and maybe just spend some time with yourself, by yourself.
2007-01-26 14:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by Venus T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... i think what your saying is pretty confusing.
2007-01-26 13:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by dragon.dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋