well this is about my boyfreind. is he a good b/f or not? once he cheated on me with a 6th grader and we are 7th graders. but he broke up with her for me! and you wanna know how i found out? my best freind found out from her freind!! and she told me!! and today i found out my freind jade asked him if he thought one of my best freinds were pretty and you wanna know what he said?! he said yes! and he hardly calls me. and he is really ugly too. so anyways what do you think? i know this sounds bad but he reallly is sweet. once he told me i was cute. but that was only once and we have been going out for 5 weeks . and he wrote me a note asking if i was okay cause i have been quiet lately. so what do you think?!
2007-01-26 13:39:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay hes ugly and he rarely calls you, and he cheated on you once but u still went back to him, he gave you a note once, he isnt very direct, and he once called you cute....
wwooooowww u deserve a lot better........i dont really think that its worth asking a question over becuase i think that u should of gotten rid of him a while ago.
dont hesitate to, becuase u dont need relationships in seventh grade let alone crappy ones.
2007-01-26 13:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by kat 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, the 6th grader may be just a friend. From my and my friends' experiences, that's usually the case in that department.
What your friend (or your friend's friend) may have been inaccurate. Much of the time, people will twist what someone said into something different.
Maybe he just thought your friends were pretty. It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like how you look.
It shouldn't matter if he is ugly or not. There's a boy in my class, not a looker on the outside and hideously ugly on the inside, who's been on many dates.
I suggest that you confront him with the information your friends told you and force him to honestly say if it's true. Interrogate him. Force him. Kick him if you need to. Just make him honestly confirm that info.
As for breaking up with him, that's your decision. If he's nice and not mean to you and isn't a bully, I'd say stay. But it's your call.
2007-01-26 13:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by 0dd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ought to promote off him asap. If he likes yet another lady and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? authentic love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and exertions. you should work out this as a red flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you mustn't also be pondering a serious relationship that is going to reason you lack of self assurance. have relaxing, do not grow to be overly invested in this, WHAT? you could't flirt? bypass on, the writing is on the wall and it spells worry. Do your self a go with and cut back the guy free, even if it is destined to be, it is going to run it is direction and he will be lower back. yet why you should take him lower back only you could answer.
2016-10-16 04:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by garfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to worry about lame boys if a kid cheats on you than hes a dirtbag key thing in relationship is trust i would advise stay away from the kid youve got your whole life to find a boyfriend save yourself the heartache and worry about school and what you plan to do with your life as far a colledge and a career. this day and age you can depend on a man for anything not even for him to keep a job. IM 25 i would know.
2007-01-26 13:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're both too young to have relationship hangups. Study hard, get good grades and be successful. This will get you a lot further in life than some prepubescent moron who is probably going to be a father by the time he is 16 !
2007-01-26 13:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should be trying to stay away from middle school drama your only 12, its not that a big of deal having a bf/gf at your age just move on and maybe stay away from guys till like highschool
2007-01-26 13:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Matt Koz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i called u cute would u go out with me if i was a serial killer? (if ur wondering im using sarcasm, its over the internet so its not really noticeable)
2007-01-26 13:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by shanakon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, he doesnt know how to be a boyfriend yet. A real boyfriend, when you are older, wont cheat on you for anyone, and if he does, he doesnt deserve you, wheather you forgive him or not.
2007-01-26 13:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by lllll 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lifes too short. Move on
2007-01-26 13:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow.
uhh no offense but its not really as big of a deal as you think.
umm theres way to much going on there.
dump him.
2007-01-26 13:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by sportzxgirlsdf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋