If you like a girl, what do you do? I mean like do you play it cool or just flirt. How would you flirt? Are you guys stupid and don't know if the girl likes you or not?
2007-01-26 13:26:31 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am talking about what guys do. I always wanted to know.
2007-01-26 13:32:53 · update #1
If I ever talk to her, which would be rare, generally I'd blush and look at the ground a lot.
And yes, I'm stupid and wouldn't know if the girl liked me.
2007-01-26 13:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by nope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to flirt a lot. I won't lay it all out there though,.. I'll just let her catch the hint that I might like her, or that I'm interested in her. I like to go from hunter to hunted. I'll flirt, smile a lot, give compliments (not too many), but I'll give her a hard time on things too just to give myself that distance. Within a week or two, I am now the one being hunted. I love it.
Every girl is different and you have to adjust your approach each time. I don't think that one line is known as a universal approach. How boring would that be anyways?
If there's a guy that you think is flirting with you,.. he probably is. Flirt back a little but keep him on the hook. Don't turn into the hunter, it's never to your advantage. You want to keep all of the cards in your hand so you'll have to string him along a bit. Good luck.
2007-01-26 13:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. If she was very upfront and out going then I'd flirt like mad. But if was a bit quiet and withdrawn I'd be a bit more Subtle. I'd still flirt, but be more held back. Maybe say her hair looked nice or something like that. But either way I'd try to let her know I liked her
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2007-01-26 13:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by topshag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for the most part, i try to be nothing else but myself. i figure if i lay it on too thick or try to act "cool" or what not, then sooner or later she's going to find out who is the real me. so i act like myself as much as possible. seems to work out for me. as for if we are stupid and don't know if the gilr likes us or not... yes, we are supremely stupid... there are times i don't know how we succeed as a species. luckily, the gals i've gone out with have been nice enought to be somewhat blunt about it... or stepped on my foot when i didn't get it, either way works.
2007-01-26 13:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously how can any guy guess what the girl is thinking at any momment when a guy is flirting with a girl, how can a guy be considered stupid if he has no idea what to do and what to say, what ever comes out of our mouths can and mostly the opposite of what they would what us to say.... but then theres those ******* that walk with their hard ones leading them around....so basically every guy excluding the *******
2007-01-26 13:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We are not dumb!!! At least I am not dumb. This girl used to like me. I knew it because I KNOW she looked at me and talked to me. Since I didn't mind, I talked to her more and have some conversations. If I like a girl, I talk to them. First, some light conversations.
2007-01-26 13:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can go both ways. And since all girls are different, it's hard to tell what the best approach is. Some girls like to chase and others like being chased.
2007-01-26 13:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by sickblade 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm stupid and it has cost me pretty big in the past, as far as reading women is concerned.
2007-01-26 13:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Tuco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do allot of flirting and joking around. Now if I like you I will ask her out. What do you have to lose?
2007-01-26 13:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Slow and easy, big pimpin ! I like to let them know we can chill, after that I step off, if she wants to be on my team she has to let me know. In the meantime im rappin with another one... more lines of opportunity open. heh
2007-01-26 13:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋