Hi, I'm wondering, how to tell the guy i like i like him. Any ideas, advice. Anything is welcomed. I don't know how to tell him. Please help. how do i approch him?, tell him?
2007-01-26 13:23:38 · 25 answers · asked by angel_in_pink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really know this guy in person? If you are friends already then I don't think you need to really tell him you like him. Cause I think it has already shown in the way you treat him and look at him. I think he already knows. So what you have to do is to see if he has reciprocal feelings towards you. It sounds horrible but you need to be rational: If he likes you too, it will also show. If he doesn't show any response or seems indifferent to your behaviour, don't make up any excuse. He doesn't like you that much, at least not for the time being. You may have to find another way to gradually build up a special relationship with him.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-02 12:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by mcmug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is a guy u just met, explain to him that u feel a connection and that mabe if he wanted to hangout or go out somewhere sometime to give you a call.
if its a guy u have been friends for a long time just shortly explain to him that you have got stronger feelings than just friendship for him and wondered if he felt the same way. Let him no there's no pressure from you.
You can tell him through a Note, text, in person, but id just leave other people out of it like dont ask your girlfriend to see if he likes you back, its only about the 2 of u.
2007-01-26 13:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by And kayla was like 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
zero and grumpy are right. you need to start a conversation. if you want the relationship to last beyond the physical attraction you feel you need to have friendship at the core of your relationship. without friendship first it turns out to be just sex the physical, which will ultimately end up leaving you feeling used and abused. not a good feeling.
so pretend he is like one of the girls but talk about sport, the news or just basically introduce yorself to him if you just met and know nothing about him and he knows nothing about you.
emailing or im is not advised as with the high level of spam mail with content from porn sites etc, he may mistake your genuine message for one of the spam ones and just ignore it.
so when ever possible face to face communication is always best.
good luck. and remeber if he is not interested then move on as there are other guys who will be interested in getting to know you better and may be dating you.
have fun and keep safe. make sure you have a good friend with you in the back ground just incase he turns out to be horrible and not worth your time, set up a signal for your friend to message you or come over and get you out of the area as soon as possible.
good uck. and as i said be safe.
2007-01-26 14:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to join you doing something fun, if you know he likes cars get tickets for a speed track or something. It doesn't have to be hot and heavy. Start out light and fun - like you have the tickets would he like to go? No big deal if he doesn't. You can show him that you quite like him without wearing your heart on your sleeve. Its not the end of the world if he says no - take somebody else.
2007-02-02 04:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should start talking as friends. Because relationships that are based off looks or just a feeling, don't turn out that well and you end up hurt. So if you get to know him, then you iknow if that is the kinda guy you even want to spend your time on. And besides relationships are all about communication...Why not start out with it?!....
2007-01-26 13:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by grumpybear0718 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually straight-forward and honest because it lets them know for sure that you're interested and eliminates all assumptions. Isn't it better to see his reaction and to discover if he feels the same rather than ponder, play games, wonder and wish for who knows how long??? If you want to be subtle at first, smile a lot, make eye contact, hold his gaze and speak with your eyes. Flirt here and there.........then casually mention how great you think he is, etc.......
2007-01-26 13:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you know about him? Try and learn something about him that you have in common and use that common thread to start a conversation. ACT interested. Smile. And if all else fails, just tell him. If he has half a clue he will get that you are interested.
2007-01-26 13:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by silver73vette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and say "I like you". Those three words I guarantee he will respond either by his body language or verbally, probably both.
If you are perceptive you will know straight away if he likes you in return.
Good luck.
2007-01-27 00:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy has an email adress or IM you could tel him like that. Or you can write him a letter telling him that yu like him & wanna know if he likes you to~ good luck :)
2007-01-26 13:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by ChocoLatte092 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him...
Get touchy feely ie lots of stuff like tickling, wanting him to rub lotion on you.
Playing nervous ... run hand up leg or arm and ask are you nervous... Nervous means stop.
When he does it to you... take your time or forget the word nervous.
Lots of hugs and asking for help how to bowl, play pool golf ie excuse for him to get arms around you. (later you can beat him at a came of winner says do rules)
TELL HIM STRAIGHT guys are dum abd dont get signals, hints, signs and if you act like you dont like him will take it litterally.
Go cinema on own with him (pref scarey one you can get a hug with... nuzzle up to him and let him put arm around you or tell him its ok to, or you put arm around him... let him reach down to touch your boob then start kissing him
2007-01-26 22:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋