2007-01-26 13:22:03 · 75 answers · asked by mespeedracer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Ask your fiancee.
2007-01-26 13:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you love the person you are marrying... If you love the person you are marrying, then you know he/she will be the last person you should ever have sex with....then why are you asking us this question? Now if you guys are swingers (I don't condone this, but I'm adding it anyways)...and he/she is okay with you having sex with somebody else...then that's your decision...but you have to live with that for the rest of your life.... Good luck...make the right choice and don't do it, and if you want to do it, you shouldn't be getting married.
2007-01-26 13:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are u thinking?? Its not okie at all under any circumstances u are going to spend the rest of ur life with someone. You shouldnt be thinking bout having sex with some other person before u get married.
2007-01-26 13:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by islands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better question to ask yourself is if you're truly ready for a monogamous relationship....
Are you?
I'm getting married in less than 2 months. Would I want to have one last one with someone? No. Would I want my fiance to have that one last one with someone else? No.
2007-01-27 15:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. I feel if the thought is even crossing your mind then you should reconsider getting married. If you love someone enough to spend the rest of your life with them then the thought of having sex with someone else shouldn't cross your mind.
2007-01-26 13:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by goodkittyasb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the relationship you have with your fiancee. And ask yourself these questions: If she were to find out, would she be upset? And is it worth losing her for a one night stand? If you answer yes to the first question and no to the second, then I'm sure you've figured it out. Not to mention... what would your reaction be if it were the other way around? How would you feel if SHE had one last fling?
2007-01-26 13:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rednr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way dude! If your wanting to have sex with someone else than your not ready to get married!!
2007-01-26 13:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with someone else, why are you getting married?
2007-01-26 13:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Um, only if you want to ruin your marriage before it ever begins! That's horrible. You sound like you're not ready for marriage AT ALL if you still want to have sex with someone else. I feel very, very sorry for your fiance.
2007-01-26 13:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are thinking that way before the marriage, most likely you think the same way after the marriage as well. I believe that when we truly love somebody, there is nobody else.
2007-01-26 13:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by 1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you're not going to have an affair with your to-be spouse. Get all of your strange fantasies out of the way before you say I Do. Don't do any of that wacky stuff when you're with your spouse (unless you two like that kind of stuff) but stop once you have kids. Your responsibilities lie with taking care of your children then, not acting out an urge.
^^;
2007-01-26 13:27:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋