To be honest, (even though it's mean) I dislike babies and I would never go through the pain of having any. But for this one guy I have loved for a long time now, I actually would, even if I am super afraid of the pain of child birth (Yes I fear any type of pain) I just think he deserves to be a father and have a child with all of his amazing traits...that's how I feel.
The sad thing is that I am not with him, and that the man is much older than me, and my teacher. I can't help it, me and him just have so much in common and such a strong connection.
And I would be a good mom, I'd give it lots of effort, besides, I always wanted to spoil kids with presents, it would just make me smile to buy stuff for my own little ones.
He likes me, but I am unsure if it is in the love way. I doubt it due to the restrictions, but I pray that he does lo
2007-01-26 13:17:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I didn't say I wanted kids now!!! In fact I wouldn't plan it until I was around 23 (I am 16 now.)
2007-01-26 13:27:58 · update #1
You should see a therapest.
2007-01-26 13:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by mksjmyd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 21:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first things you say is that you "dislike babies", then you say you would make a good mom. Women who dislike babies, they don't make good moms. I feel you are much too young, by the way you sound, to even be thinking about grown up men and having their babies. First you have to be happy and complete on your own...then you add someone else to your life and think about babies and such. Hang out with your friends and some guys your own age and think about ice cream... burgers... and movies instead of babies. By the way, you can have medication during childbirth... the risks involved are small... you don't have to have natural child birth.
2007-01-26 13:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. The pain of childbirth is a very forgetable pain. The reward is too unbelievable.
2. The kind of union that creates a child is sacred....it has nothing to do with buying presents or playing dress up dolls.
3. If you are contemplating trapping your teacher by getting pregnant than you are setting yourself up for a life of hurt and sorrow.
Grow up and find a proper mate before you consider being a parent.
2007-01-26 13:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your headline question caught my eye because I know that feeling...Its really really special to feel that the babe you're having is going to be a super addition to the world because of whose babe it is, yours and his.
However. No. You have a powerful crush on your teacher. Give it up. Keep on growing up, learn a lot, become your own woman, travel a little. Read books, expand your mind before you consider expanding your belly.
Someday maybe you will be an adult in love with an adult and want to bring a child into the world to raise together.
2007-01-26 13:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Arlosmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are being honest enough with us...then be honest with yourself!!!!!!! Kids are work! hard work! REALLY hard work and not to be considered if a) you are not married b) you don't even sound old enough to have kids c) he is your teacher d) you admit you don't like kids but would enjoy buying presents.
Here's my suggestion: Buy presents for kids in a hospital or shelter. They will appreciate it. YOUR kid will see through you in a heartbeat. Kids for you now? NOT recommended.
2007-01-26 13:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too old for you . Maybe you will find someone your own age who you feel the same way about. Give it time..you still have growing up to do.
2007-01-26 13:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is when two people can unite forever. Can you do that with him? What you are speaking of is just an agreement.
2007-01-26 13:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is! Love your man and let things just happen between two people....in love!~
2007-01-26 13:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....this is a mess.
2007-01-26 13:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋