Any tips? Suggestions? Thanks ;P
2007-01-26 13:16:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get your handsome self looking as hot as possible, shine up your shoes, and go do it. Women LOVE getting attention from men, and even if this girl is taken or otherwise says no, she will be flattered.
Flattered, that is, if you look respectable and have some self-confidence when you ask. Remind yourself of your accomplishments and how well you treat women, and that any woman would be proud to be yours - and that if she's not interested it's because she doesn't realize what a catch you are and she's the one who missed her chance.
Good luck!
2007-01-26 13:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know guys actually "mentally warmed up" before they came up to a girl. But personally if you can see that the girl is into you (eye contact, giving a few grins) just take a breath and go up to her and be yourself and say what you want to say. If you don't know if she's into you, then just go up to her and over her shoulder say hello (to get her attention) tell her who you are and the reason you came over to see her. I don't know a girl that doesn't like to be flattered. Of course to have success, you have to have confidence and we can tell by the way you approach us and they way your dressed. So, no worries honey, get spiffed up, get your charm in gear and have a great time.
2007-01-26 21:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by roxiluv05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach 50 other girls. Tonight, I stopped by Starubucks for a Venti Mocha. The woman that waited on me was probably out of my league, but being single and unattatched, I couldn't help myself. When she asked if she could get me anything else, I said, "you could give me your home phone number." She blushed, and paused, and I said "Acceptable answers include yes and no". She said, "I have a boyfriend", and I said, "OK, I am going to take that as a 'no' then".
Didn't ruffle my feathers. I'd feel worse if I didn't try... all things considered.
2007-01-26 21:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
warm up. well im very malicious and i think the worst. be ready to get shut down so when it happens it doesnt hurt as much. but go willing and open. go honest and ready to turn your charm on. tell the truth be ready for possible answers and conversations. dont go empty headed cause that will make you hesitate. and always be yourself. because in the end they will find out if you were puttting a charade. good luck and happy loving
2007-01-26 21:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by MAX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous and enunciate....oh and make sure ur fly is up....or down....great conversation starter lol
2007-01-26 21:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think about it and just do it
2007-01-26 21:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Gawargyous S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋