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my girlfriend said that we need to take a brake can someone tell me what that means?

2007-01-26 13:09:38 · 51 answers · asked by itachi 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

51 answers

She wants to break up with you ...

Spell like O-V-E-R ...

2007-01-26 13:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 1 2

It means a number of things. One, she may be going through a couple of problems and she dont want you to worry about what is going on. Two, you may be "smothering" her, but she don't want to leave you completely. Three, you maybe moving too fast for her (I am sorry if I am making you upset, I would need a little more detail than what I got to help you out more and I don't know how long you two have been together) and she needs to think about what is going on and if you are really what she wants for a long term relationship or for the future a husband. And, four, the unmentionable, she just wants to see what it will be like with another guy, and she don't want to cheat on you to find out because then she will loose you completely, so she says she wants to take a brake, so she can go be with someone else and see if she really likes another guy or you better, then she will come back and think everything will be back to normal, but it won't and she will not tell you why she did what you did. Just ask her why she needs the break. It could be a good thing, but it may be a bad thing. Just pray that it is the good.

2007-01-26 13:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0 0

Sorry to say...taking a break in a relationship is probably a nice way of saying this is not working for me. She probably does not have the courage to just come out and tell you. So, why dont you just ask her...you have nothing to loose at this point. As her to explain exactly what taking a break means...does it mean she needs some time to herself for a week...or does it mean things are not working out between the two of you. Back her in a corner and make her answer...as it is easier to deal with the truth.

2007-01-26 13:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would say it is time to move on. Of course there is an ever so slight chance that after the "break", you may get back together, but I wouldn't count on it. But for the most part, it's just a chicken poop type of way to send you down the road. Save some self respect and get out now while you can.

2007-01-26 13:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by lawdogsgrl 1 · 0 0

um man that is difficult. ive been in a so called "break" for 2 days and the relationship ended. it means that she is sick of the same thing over and over, sick of arguing, sick of talking, and doesnt feel the same thing as she did in the beggining and wants to figure out if she still wants to be with you. you should be ready to either fight for her or stand the end of the relationship and move on. try and see why she wants to take a break. is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship. im sorry man. if you want and love her dont let this break begin. good luck

2007-01-26 13:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by MAX 3 · 0 0

It means she wants to date someone else (she already has him picked out). Unless there is something else that recently changed (like you moving far apart, or her starting college?).
If there is something else going on, it means lets break up for a set period of time...and if our circumstances are right at some point in the future (we both happen to be single and still want to give it another shot) we can resume dating.

2007-01-26 13:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0 0

I always thought "take a break" was a cowardly way of saying "this just isn't working out" or "I'm not happy".

It could mean one of two things...(1) they just don't want to see you for a while to catch their breath and think over things for a final decision or (2) they actually are intending on seeing other people and this kind of gives them the permission to do it.

2007-01-26 13:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by CG 6 · 0 0

It does not mean he has been dumped people.

Taking a break means, that she doesnt want to follow the dating rules, she wants a little bit of space, so you can both see where eachother fits into the other's life. If you're happier without her, then you probably shouldnt get back together...


Good Luck

2007-01-26 13:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Snowy H 1 · 0 0

it depends on what she means by it she will have to explain what that means. it depends on what rules you have set for it. some breaks can let others date you other breaks cant some have the chance of getting back to gether again others never intended that to be so you will have to discuss what she thinks the break means and since she is the one taking the break ask her if you still have a chance of going out again and whether or not she can see toher people

2007-01-26 13:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

She will deny it but I`ve heard that one too many times. Its a polite way of breaking up a little bit later you will hear that "I met someone". You can try to make things right but generally when they leave they rarely look back. Don`t beat yourself up over it. My guess is: she didn`t make a very good effort to make it right. It takes 2 equal participants to make it work. I`d love to hear this is not case without getting your hopes up. Tecnically at this point you are single I`m certain thats what she thinks. Be strong and wise to her ways. Good luck.

2007-01-26 13:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0 0

It means for the time being, she doesnt want to continue seeing you as boyfriend/girlfriend. This means that the two of you may or may not get back together again, and currently you could see other girls.

2007-01-26 13:15:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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