i am sorta young (13) and i find my self thinking about guys.....(not in a nasty way)
many people tell me that i have very good looks...but i am really smart and i am in science olympiad...(where all the nerds go) i wouldnt say that i am popular but a lot of people like to be around me and a lot of people say that i am cool to be around. i am also very athletic (i love to run long distance) but i am thinking that since i am smart and a little bit of a nerd, it is turning a lot of guys off.... should i be worrying about that? or should i just keep living my life the way i have been (single)?
2007-01-26 13:06:29 · 22 answers · asked by guffi11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I am a little younger (11) and I think that it doesn't really turn guys off. I am just like you and I had a couple guys like me. Thanks to a kid who always yells it in art class......Anyway, my point is that any guy would be lucky to be with you. You are smart and athletic. I guess that you are in good shape. That is the perfect person.
2007-01-26 13:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy doesn't like that you're smart, he's dumb.
Never dumb yourself down and realize you're only 13. Not only will your intelligence grow, but so will your experiences. You don't need a boyfriend at such a young age... because the minute you date someone in the 7th grade, all you get is a boyfriend who won't talk to you and an awkward school slow dance.
You're not missing anything yet, honey. BTW, very impressed at the science olympiad! Keep it up!
2007-01-26 21:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by collegegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to be yourself! Not all guys like girls just for their looks, just keep going with what your doing, and when you like a guy, ask him out or just get to know him first, then see from there. Dont change or think your doing anything wrong because guys are assholes, in highschool you can get very uncomfertable with the way you look and the person you are, i wasnt smart and hated the way i looked, but was myself and didnt have a boyfriend till i was 16! So keep your head up, dont change just for someone to like you, if people say your cool and fun to be around, take their advice.
2007-01-26 21:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by MandaMay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the way you are, im sure the people around you are right, you are cool to be with, so don't worry if a guy likes you then it doesn't matter if your smart and you like science. Being in a relationship is great, being single is better in my opinion, i first started to go out with a guy i really liked, and then fall in love, it was great...sometimes, but other times it hurt alot, i wish sometimes i've never been with the guy and stayed single, it changed me for the worst. and in the end i was the one that got hurt, just don't be like me, don't fall in love too fast, i'm not saying be single forever im saying you stay being you and guys will come to you, you won't want a guy to like you because you stopped doing what you like to do, you want him to like you for who you are.
2007-01-26 21:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever change yourself for anybody! Ever! You sound like you will be very successful when you grow up. You are young and most likely any of the guys you date now are not the guy you would marry. Just keep doing what you are doing and the person who is right for you will come along. Also when you get older guys don't like dumb girls, they like the smart ones who don't go out with every guy and who is true to herself.
2007-01-26 21:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 13 too!
i kinda know what your talking about. so my advice is deffinitly to not change your self for guys. But i do understand how you feel!
You sound like a nice girl and i doubt that being smart turns guys off.
So dont change who you are and what you do. Just put your self out there a little bit more!!
Well good luck with those boys!
2007-01-26 21:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by sportzxgirlsdf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on single if guys are turned off by that, personally I can't stand a hot popular girl that dumb as rocks. The most important things are brains and personallity. Then again I'm a big nerd myself lol, 4.2 GPA and an 1840 on my SAT.
2007-01-26 21:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep living your life like it's golden. Don't worry about being a NERD. I'm one, too =P. But would you let a guy who just wants you for sex do that to you? Ruin your life? There is a guy look for you for who you are. Just remember that. I'm not telling you to do this. I'm just telling you the outcome of this.
2007-01-26 21:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i know you want help on that question don't worry i will answer it for you it would be my pleasure. Well, in my personal opinion you should have a boyfriend if you want or ask some guy out and if your just not to sure my advice is for you to think very well and make a final and definite decision.
2007-01-26 21:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by FireStone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, you should be single. At your age you should be focusing on being you. Developing your own character is the most important thing you can do right now. Don't change who you are just to make other people like you.
2007-01-26 21:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋