Should I confront him about it? Or leave it alone?
2007-01-26 13:04:18 · 13 answers · asked by The Saint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him. Now. I made the mistake of keeping my mouth shut when I saw my best friend doing the same thing. Looking back now I know he'd be happier now if I had said something to him about it. Don't go to her though. Just tell him what you think and why. Be tactful.
2007-01-26 13:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how strongly you feel about it and how willing you are to deal with the drama. If he's cheating, he knows it's wrong and maybe he doesn't feel badly about it so maybe having a friend tell him how much it sucks will knock some sense into him. If I were you, I would advise him to just break up with his girlfriend. Why stay with her if he doesn't care enough to be monogamous?
2007-01-26 21:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Leah~Ariana is due Oct. 09~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone because it may cause you problem with your friend. she will find out on her own, when a person doing wrong it always come to the light also what go around, come around
2007-01-26 21:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all: do you even want to get involved? And if you do this is what I would do:
Confront him about it, but act more concerned than angry.. and if he regrets it, then let it be and hope he's learned his lesson and he doesn't do it again; but if he's c ocky about it, I would tell his girlfriend..she'll find out about it sooner or later, and I think it would make her feel the littlest bit better if you let her know.
good luck, these kinda situations are messy :(
2007-01-26 21:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♥amorvida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for chrissake, leave it alone!! If you confront him and the two of you fight, then there will be weirdness. If you tell the gf, there will be wierdness. Or perhaps you just wnat the gf yourself?
2007-01-26 21:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by TEACHING GODDESS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone. If you say somethin, the girl w/b mad at you and say that you're lying. Then your friend w/b mad at you not being loyal to him. So just stay out of it. And if his woman comes to you and ask how come you didn't tell her, then just say, "it wasn't my place". And leave it at that.
2007-01-26 21:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should confront him and tell him that its wrong and he shluldnt do it.. then if he listens to u or not is his problem.. hes gonna end up geting hurt( emotiionally) .. trust me dat has happened before wit a friend of mine
2007-01-26 21:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by need_help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely say something. And if he won't fess up to his girl. You tell her. She should now when she's being cheated on.
2007-01-26 21:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by ixibreedingevilixi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave it alone. you shouldn't get involved in something that doesn't involve
2007-01-26 21:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Gawargyous S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him privately about it, tell him you don't agree with that kind of behaviour so don't do it again in front of you.
2007-01-26 21:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋