he likes me I can tell he always smiles and winks at me.I like him alot but i can't figure out a way to get them to break up.suggestions?they've been dating 4 months.
2007-01-26 12:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by LO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont try and break them up.. then he might not like you after that.. give it time.. and he feels about you the way you think, and if he wants to be with you he will break up with her..
You both can be friends until then. I was in a similar situation when I met my husband.. he was married at the time, and i wanted him to go back to his wife bc i didnt want her to think i was breaking them up.. he reasurred me that he was the one breaking them up not me.. 9 months after meeting, and less then one month after his divorce, we were married, and ive never been happier.. and neither has he..
2007-01-26 12:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get them to break up. That's just wrong.
If you really like the guy and want him to be happy (as opposed to just lusting over him like it sounds) then you need to let him be with his gf and stand down.
If he feels he would be happier with you, then he will leave his girlfriend of his own accord.
Oh and P.S. - Smiles and winks do not mean he likes you.
2007-01-26 20:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chip 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this guy because he already has a girlfriend and you should not consider coming between the two of them. If he's flirting with you while he's still involved with someone else, he will do the same thing if he's with you.
Can't you see the red flag?? This guy is really bad news!!!!
2007-01-26 20:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a way to break them up? Shame on you, you know that you are wrong and you know why it is wrong.
OK so you think of some plan to break them us so that you can get him, what have you got?Some guy that would dump his girl because he got a better offer? Is that what you want? How long before it comes back around and some chick is making plans to steal him from you? You need to check you way of thinking before what goes around comes back around to smack you in the face. Shame and shame again
2007-01-26 20:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. If he liked you more than her, he'd break up with her himself and you wouldn't have to lift a finger.
If he really likes you, it'll happen.
But if you're the type of girl that breaks up a relationship, it's definately a turn off for anybody. Even as a friend.
2007-01-26 20:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by collegegirl 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested than he will break up with her. If you do something to cause them to break up you will only look like a bad guy, and that might turn him off.
2007-01-26 20:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by MEESH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If you really like him wait him out. You might find out in the mean time that it was just an infatuation. Also think about this what goes around comes around, I would not want that kind of karma.
2007-01-26 20:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by brneyedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Are you really so desperate that you can't seem to find your own man so you're willing to lower yourself by trying to break up someone else's relationship? Pathetic and Low. Low. Low.
2007-01-26 20:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you break them up and he goes for you trust me someone will come along and take him away from you. Just leave it be and if it is meant to be he will be with you
2007-01-26 20:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to make them break up
i mean after you do that he may get upset and he wont even like u anymore.if he likes u then he'd break up with his gf already and would go out with u.....why dont u just leave them alone since its their love life...dont mess with it or he mite not even talk to u....
and just because he winx and smiles at u doesnt mean he likes u....hes just bein nice
2007-01-26 20:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anon. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋