Today after work i went with my manager and a co-worker to eat and drink a magarita. My bf called me and asked me where i was at and i told him. So when i got home (we live togther) he was mad and he told me not to talk to him. i really don't know what to do cause i hardly ever go out and when i do he gets mad. But it is okay for him to go out and come home the next day and i never do that. I want to break up with him but i don't know how? I love him but he doesnt understand that i need to go out to while i am still young. He has his fun why not me?! I've tried talking to him and it doesnt work. i have even told him that we should go out togther but he doesn't want to he wants he friends only HELP NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!
2007-01-26 12:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by beauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a double standard. Why would you love a person who treats you this way? You deserve to be treated better and you deserve someone who is proud to be with you and who wants to be seen in public with you. This is not love, it is a dictatorship. Tell him in no uncertain terms that if this behavior continues, you will kick his sorry *** to the curb! You don't have to live like this for the rest of your life. Get rid of him.
2007-01-26 12:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your bf is a bit controlling, eh? I have a girlfriend whose bf is like yours and she puts up with it even though she's not happy. It's all up to you as you know what makes you happy and I don't think you like being in this relationship. Personally, I wouldn't put up with it as relationships aren't suppose to be like that - women need their personal time and so do men so I don't know why he's making such a fuss over you going out for some food and a drink. If you're seriously wanting to leave this guy, you can easily ask him to leave or you can move out. I will be hard since you say you love him but I really don't think that that's what love is - being all controlling and stuff, you know what I'm saying?
2007-01-26 12:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i would break up with him i am 22/m and i have a gf of a year and she has girl's nights out and i have guy's night's. For him to go out and not you, dump that loser, its not fair. You deserve better and to have fun with your friends. No double dating what that is always fun. If your bf is going out with out you all the time then i bet there is another girl. I had an ex like that. Get rid of him.
2007-01-26 12:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by chris s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out or leave yourself and find somone not so controlling! There is nothing but trouble ahead for you in a relationship with somone like that. He wants to control everything and that is not a way to live your life!!
2007-01-26 12:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the reason he doesnt want u to go out is because he suspects u r cheating on him with someone else.
i think u should break up.
if he goes and has his fun u should be able to go out with ur friends.
break up w/ him!! and then u go have ur fun!!
2007-01-26 12:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by desi0231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is very immature, controlling, and jealous. Please find your own place and leave this loser as soon as possible. He is not good boyfriend or future husband material. You deserve better!
2007-01-26 12:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋