I'm inlove w/ my bestfriend but he says he's inlove w/ a girl he's been with for like.. 3 weeks. We did go out at one time, but we hadn't broken the just friend thing. I wish we could try it again and everytime I see him and his girlfriend together it just kills me. What should I do?
2007-01-26 12:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He gets close to people really fast.
& he's never been in TRUE love.
But he wants it..
so i'm kind of scared that him & his new girlfriend (that I hate) will actually become something.
2007-01-26 12:35:05 · update #1
Continue to be a best friend...and do nothing to come between him and his girlfriend. If she's not a good match for him, he will figure this out in time...then you will be there, as a best friend and maybe more. However if you would do something to undermine his relationship with her now...he would resent you and the friendship would suffer
2007-01-26 12:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be scared is a sure sign that you love your best friend. And hating her is another one. Just let it run it's course and see what happens. Stay being his best friend and give out advice that you would give him no matter how you feel about him, don't mislead him. Have you two spoken about how you truly feel? And, is crossing the thin line between friendship/love worth your friendship? That is the hardest thing to do. If you cross the line, truly cross the line, then there is no turning back. I did that once and I won't ever do it again, because I lost a great friend, because neither one of can see each other date others. It's hard to be in that position. Good luck and I hope you get what you're looking for!
2007-01-26 20:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, wish him well, then go find someone else. You can't wait around forever. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-26 20:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should move on, as you can see he is in love with his girlfriend. and he only considers you as a friend. its not good to hang on to a guy you lyk but he has a gf. just move on its the best thing to do.
2007-01-26 20:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by xkathiee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you go with him and get in love with him when yall break upi you will not want to be friends because it will be aquard being around each other
2007-01-26 20:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by eazygangsta573 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to make it work cause you feel you want to be with him forever.
2007-01-26 20:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by US 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-01-26 20:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋