I feel that if two people are meant to be together that they will want the same thing, its been five years and I am well over wanting a proposal, he "says" he wants to marry me, well in so many words he says who says I don't want to marry you?? i never said I don't want to or it won't happen, but im going to do it my way, in my timing. So I just feel if we were really soulmates, he wouldn't be giving me resistence..........what do you think?
2007-01-26 12:28:25 · 3 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Wondering my niece is kind of going through the same as you at present. She and her man live together and he says that he is not ready to marry yet. That he loves her unconditionally but that there is something wrong with him at present for not wanting to marry her. Fact is though that he runs with nothing bud single friends and I imagine is hearing things from them about the negative aspects of having the ball and chain around him and that has something to do with it. In your situation I would suggest that you sit down with your man and if necessary you do the proposing and then you can find out if he is really wanting to marry you or not. Communicate with him how you are feeling and that you want to be married by such and such a date. Sometimes fella are a little feared of marriage if they have come from a single parent home and witnessed their parents split. Not trying to make any excuses for him but only you can get to the bottom of this so discuss it head to head.
2007-01-26 12:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you..he will wait and make sure you and him are right for each other..but if he is really inlove with you he will ask you if he thinks you will leave him because he fears losing you.... because soulmates know that marriage is the highest step....
soulmates just know....
2007-01-26 20:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no such thing
2007-01-26 20:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by κύριος κτίστης 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋