I am 14 and in a little bit of a loop or knot in my life. I have pretty low self esteem and i need some help. I have a boyfriend and he tells me to stop "doggin" on myself all the time and i know he loves me but i am still having a hard time. i am just getting to accept myself and when other ppl in school literally push me around it doesn't help. i would really like some help.
2007-01-26 12:24:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Darktania by getting physically stronger. I don't know who it is whose pushing you around physically. If you say something to your counselor or principal about it, it may become worse.
Maybe these ppl would leave you alone if you stood up to them. I know that's hard. When I was young like you, I had very low self-esteem.
If you go to the library and try to get some books on positive affirmations to keep telling yourself, I believe you'll be better at facing these ppl down.
The best to you.
2007-01-26 12:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind the other people push you around to make themselves look better. The only way they can think to raise themselves up is to push others down (like you).
That doesn't mean you have to take it, of course. Feel free to stand up for yourself and fight. You are a human being and have every right to live life happily, don't let them take that from you. If someone says something nasty to you, say something nasty back. If they feel like getting physical, then by all means defend yourself.
Don't let anybody convince you that you are worth less than you are. Listen to your bf, you shouldn't "dog" on yourself.
2007-01-26 12:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU'VE GOT A MAN---- WHO OBVIOUSLY THINKS YOU'RE SPECIAL
YOU SHOULD IMAGINE THAT EVERYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD IS IN THEIR UNDERWEAR AND USUALLY HAVE TO TAKE A DUMP EVERY NOW AND THEN
LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND LOVE YOURSELF
YOU'VE GOT SOME GREAT QUALITIES TO OFFER THE WORLD, BUT IF YOU HOLD BACK OUT OF FEAR OR PERSONAL SHAME------ YOU MAY NOT BE THERE TO HELP THE VERY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO ARE GOING TO NEED YOU.
DONT LET PEOPLE PUSH YOU AROUND---- SPEAK UP, SPEAK OUT, AND BRING A BAT (well you'll get in trouble for that) OR YOU COULD JUST REPORT THEM.
Remember: YOU ARE VALUABLE, SPONTANEOUS, AND FULL OF LIFE
2007-01-26 12:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 03:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is to BELIEVE! when you believe in yourself, everything just kinda comes. I'm 15 and Ive been battling low self esteem for 5 years. and I'm much better now. makes me wish i knew this a long time ago. Be confident! Confidence is key!
2007-01-26 12:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and be nice and friendly to everyone.
Remember that you are a person! Be happy with yourself.
I really don't know what else to say but Live Life To The Fullest!
~flashylights*
2007-01-26 12:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This body and personality are what you have been given to go through life with. Get comfortable with it. If you like yourself, others will like you. If they do not, let it be their problem, not yours.
Even great people only get about 50 percent acceptance.
2007-01-26 12:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get attitude right first dont let no one bring you down every one has flaws. Everyone is beautiful in someway u have to just start feeling good about yourself surround your self around positive ppl who make u feel good. keep yo head up dont let no one keep you down and just stay away from negative ppl .
2007-01-26 12:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by MIKE J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is my advice,
Think of the good things about ur self. No one is perfect. Just think of it like a cloud with a siver lining.
2007-01-26 12:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a self defense class... not only do you learn self defense, you also get equipped with self esteem.
2007-01-26 12:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋