well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. then my friend called her while i was on the third line and my friend asked why she keeps looking at me during class and she said just to see what hes doing. then she kept going about the things she liked about me and then my friend asked do you like him and she said she'll tell him at school then they talked at school the next day and she does like me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her?
2007-01-26 12:22:38 · 14 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU need to talk to her and not have " other " people do your talking. You will get further and know the truth for yourself.
Good Luck
2007-01-26 12:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her, in a very polite and friendly way without your friends or her friends around, and say something in this spirit:
"Hey, you never gave me an answer about going out, so I assume you don't want to, and that's okay. I'm disappointed, but I still like you, and I hope we can still be friends -- and if that's too weird for you, that's fine too, but I didn't want you to be stressed about the whole thing. Friends? Or at least acquaintences?"
Odds are she'll either be glad you broke the ice on the awkwardness, or she'll change her mind about you and suggest you go out after all -- and she may need to walk away and think about it before she makes up her mind. But you'll have been a nice, normal person doing the stand-up thing (letting her off the hook for not saying "no" to your face) and you can move on to the next girl knowing you're a good guy.
Also, don't assume she likes you in a dating sense based on what she said when your friend was talking to her, since she probably knows that you and your friend know each other. In that context, her liking you is probably as a friend (although possibly not.)
So, do what I said, then walk away from the whole thing. Treat her the way you did before, and for pete's sake don't do things like 3-way snoop -- that's tacky, tacky, tacky. Be a stand-up guy in all things, and the girls will date you without such drama and theatrics.
Good luck!
2007-01-26 20:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should keep talking to her. She sounds like she likes you but is extremely shy.
She probably said "No", to the first time you asked her out because she panicked.
I bet she's hoping you'll ask again. Really. Some girls are so shy they will sometimes run from a guy they have a crush on because they're afraid of saying something stupid.
It really does sound like she likes you. Keep at it until she is brave enough to say yes.
I'm guessing though, that the next time you ask her, she'll say yes.
Good luck. She's a shy one.
2007-01-26 20:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have to talk to her!!! Pherhaps she said No to you because she can't have a boyfriend(you know parents) or any other reason. But if she have been lookin you so much, that means she likes you. Just listen to your heart and do what you think it's best :)
2007-01-26 20:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-26 20:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Fifth Contender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said no when you asked her out the first time, maybe your best bet to to "play it cool" and see if she comes to you because of a change of heart.
2007-01-26 20:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by Cerulean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw thats so adorable.
She likes you, if you are still interested go and talk to her.
I had something similiar to this happen to me in high school.
Good luck to you guys <3
~flashylights*
2007-01-26 20:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her personality, she might think it bold of you to talk to her, she might prefere you to talk first, but she might not, if I were you I would talk to her. She's probably to shy to just talk so maybe you can write her a note & pote in her locker, or you can just talk!
2007-01-26 20:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitly talk to her, if you don't it gives her the sence you don't like her anymore, so if you want to go out with her talk to her.
2007-01-26 20:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by musicangl4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may just take time
let her talk to you
otherwise you might seem really pushy and forward
if she wants to talk she'll find a way to talk to you
2007-01-26 20:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by rebekah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋