I've really liked this guy for the longest time and i don't know how to tell him how i feel. I think he is so sweet and nice. I wonder if he likes me but, i don't have a clue. Please tell me how to find out how to tell if he likes me or not.
2007-01-26 12:14:22 · 11 answers · asked by melody m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How to Know if a Guy Likes You
Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.
Steps
Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.
Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
Make eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.
Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.
See if he always end up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him.
Tips
Generally, think about how you act when you like someone, and look for those signs in others.
He might be shy and/or introverted. In these cases, you have to be especially gentle and patient.
Make sure the male in question is heterosexual. Some homosexual men are more comfortable showing affection toward female friends because they aren't worried about the friend thinking they are romantically interested. You could easily get the wrong idea.
Warnings
Beware of friendly, outgoing guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions.
If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way." Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character.
2007-01-26 12:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might sell off him asap. If he likes yet another female and he or she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? actual love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, that is dedicated and complicated artwork. you could see this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you shouldn't additionally be thinking a intense relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have relaxing, do no longer grow to be overly invested in this, WHAT? you will no longer be able to flirt? flow on, the writing is on the wall and it spells worry. Do your self a prefer and decrease the guy unfastened, no depend if that's destined to be, it is going to run that is direction and he would be lower back. yet why you will possibly take him lower back basically you could answer.
2016-11-01 09:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to spend time with you in the mall. Go to the movies. Ask him to have a dinner date with you but prepared to pay the bills. If he insist on paying, he likes the idea of going with you. Go to church with him. Play card games with him during weekends. Ask him to help you in your homework. Study together after school.
If he likes to spend some time with you that would be the first clue in your relationship with him.
Good luck.
2007-01-26 12:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem too....i think the best thing u can do is to ask him if he likes u or not...cause if u dont ur going to regret it
2007-01-26 12:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
whats the worst that could happen...he could say he doesnt like you back. sure it would suck but you would get over it. its better than always wondering what would have happened and he just might like you back so i would say go for it
good luck!
2007-01-26 12:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by rebekah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if you catch him lookin at you or like sayong hi to you
u might have a fare chance
2007-01-26 12:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by melissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him urself or wrote him a note. if ur really chicken then havea friend ask him
2007-01-26 12:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him or get a friend to ask him. good luck
2007-01-26 12:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-26 12:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask u r frnds to ask him
2007-01-26 12:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋