I have been with my boyfriend a little over 5 years now and he has not proposed which is what I want. I am about to turn 31 and he is about to turn 30. I still love him very much and want him to be the one but I'm tired of waiting on a proposal. Is it selfish of me to go on with my life?
2007-01-26 12:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him how you feel and if you don't get a proposals, move on the guy is noncommittal and don't wast any more time with this dude
2007-01-26 12:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not selfish of you at all. You have to follow your heart and you deserve to be happy. I would sit down with him and have an open and honest discussion and flat out ask him if he ever plans to propose. If he says no, then you may want to consider cutting your losses and walking away. I realize that, that is much easier said than done, believe me, I have been there. You don't want to be in the same prediciment 5 years from now. If its not meant to be, then its not meant to be and no amount of hanging on is going to change that. The only way to know is to ask and if you don't get the answer you want, then move on. There are plenty of men out there who aren't afraid to make that commitment. I was in a relationship for five years where I hung in there even though I wasn't getting what I would have wanted out of it. I kept thinking that if I hung in there long enough there would at some point be a pay off. Turned out there wasn't. It sucked at the time, but then I realized that I was young and attractive and that there were plenty of fish in the sea. That was in 2004. In early 2005 I met a wonderful man and 7 months ago we were married. Find out now what you want to know. Good luck. I hope for the best for you, whatever that may be.
2007-01-26 12:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by Marijane K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 09:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo - if he knows that it's really important to you that you want to get married he would have:
1. explained the situation to why he hasn't done and so and how it is in his future plans
2. done it by now
Plead with him once more and give him these 2 choices:
1. we get married and that's in his future plan
or
2. that's it - done.
Maybe he'll react and act more to it if you tell him
2007-01-26 12:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. You need to look out for yourself and what you really want. Life is too short.
2007-01-26 12:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try talking to him about marriage more and give him some clues u want to be engaged. good luck
2007-01-26 12:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋