2007-01-26 12:08:01 · 14 answers · asked by Christines256 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok people be nice I DID NOT do this!!
2007-01-26 14:17:19 · update #1
You are engaged to someone -- that means you're preparing to spend the rest of your life with them. That doesn't mean you get to have some final hookups before you commit; you should already be committed to your guy! The whole point of the engagement is to have time to prepare the wedding and whatnot, and to make sure nobody rushes into something they're not ready for.
So, you hooked up with someone else. Well, it sounds like you're not ready to be committed. Good thing you found out before you married him, huh? If you really love him, you'll tell him what happened. He may break it off, he may be okay with it, or he may need some time to decide -- but if you're going to spend the rest of your life with him, it shouldn't be hard to confess your mistake and trust him to consider your side of things before he makes his decision.
On the other hand, if you don't trust him enough to tell him, AND you hooked up with another guy -- break it off now. You're not ready for marriage, at least not with your fiancee, and you don't know what commitment is. Stay single until you're ready.
2007-01-26 12:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bad is it???????!!!!!!! It's gone past bad and straight into God Awful! If the guy this "girl" is engaged to is that bad, then why not break the engagement off and then sleep with another guy instead of f*ucking up someone elses life by playing games. I mean, honestly people, lets try and grow the hell up!
2007-01-26 12:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she feels the need to sleep with another guy, she doesnt really love the fiance as she should, and she should not get married to him..
True love and compatibility makes one feel like, they dont want to have sex with other people.
Honestly, she shouldnt be engaged with a guy she has not lived with yet... When they do live together, hold crap, a rude awakening!!!
2007-01-26 12:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason i'm right it incredibly is with the help of the fact i became questioning if all and sundry had long undergone some thing reminiscent of what I purely rehashed with my ex-lady pal. Frankly, in spite of the reality that i like most of the solutions published right here, none of them are finished. if certainty be recommended that the main intimate element we people can share (different than praying) is making love. as quickly as you provide yet another individual your physique, notably in case you fee the great evaluate regards to the harmless love between you, or the attention-catching little international you have created between you, you will no longer be able to smash up. that is that straightforward. emotions run wild and uncooked...notably in women individuals, while such breakups happen. rather, emotions can run so wild that even virgins after a smash up have long gone and slept with somebody else out of spite...it has occurred in my relationships two times a minimum of. You do what you're able to do. besides the shown fact that, you seem to sense issues precisely as I do. And, in view that it incredibly is probable the case, i prefer to propose you no longer waste yet another 2d together with her.
2016-11-01 09:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Super bad.
She feels no attachment or honor being engaged, what's a marriage ceremony going to do for her?
She's bad news, she's going to be sleeping around from now until death do her part.
2007-01-26 12:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am willing to bet you already know the answer to this question. What a great way to start a potential marriage and I say potential because I am not sure a wedding will happen.
2007-01-26 12:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by KingGeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very bad. engaged means you made a promise. If you want someone else you should not be marrying this guy. it will end badly.
2007-01-26 12:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for the guy she's engaged to...he will have a pass around wife...or the town pump.....eitther is bad.
2007-01-26 12:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating no matter how you try to justify it. Obviously she's not ready to be married and she should give the ring back and then go have her fun.
2007-01-26 12:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if she gives it out, it can't be all that bad???? Except to the guy she is engaged to???
2007-01-26 12:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋