My boyrfriend and I have been together for about five months now, and so far everything is going fine. I can go as far to say that we trust one another. However I want to become a dancer simply because I can. He totally disagrees by stating, " I don't want other guys to touch my girl, nor look at all the things that are suppose to be for my eyes only." I disagree with that simply because I am not going to work in a club where I can be touched and guys look at me all the time especially considering that I don't wear a lot of clothes anyway. I have explained to him that this is just simply entertainment, and I would never cheat on him. How can I convince him to have a change of heart? and what is the big deal with guys letting their girls basically tease other men?We are just making those customers envy our man at home.
2007-01-26 11:58:34 · 7 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you degrade yourself into becoming a stripper??? i have a friend that is a stripper and she has a boyfirend but they broke up because she couldn't stop because of the money and got into drugs yeah you say you wont but you know what you WILL and you will lose him to so you will ahve to make a choice to either lose your man or lose your dignatiy???? it's your choice but i would say don't strip because it's just plan nasty and you don't know where those other girls have been and you will be touching the same things that they have been touching with all their nastyness so DON"T
2007-02-02 14:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ melisa ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you would even entertain the idea of being a dancer and having a boyfriend at the same time.If you respect him at all you wont do it.How would you like it if he did it to you?Lets just say he wanted to be a photographer for FHM would you be "O.K" with that?What a selfish attitude "simply because I can" Maybe he needs to leave you to your dancing then maybe,just maybe that will open your eyes a little
2007-01-26 12:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry i tend to agree with him, your his girlfriend,your body is for his eyes only, and if your that good, why would you lower yourself to stripping, i don't mean to be mean,but if you lower yourself to trash, you'll soon be trash, plus i think you'd change your mind if he decided that's what he wanted to do?i seen girl and guy stripper, they all start out fun and fairly respectful, but sooner or later, they get trashy and nasty,is that how you want your man to look at you as nasty and dirty, not good for a relationship.sorry for being so blunt
2007-02-03 11:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so i can somewhat relate to you... I'm seeing this guy and i am about to have a baby, once i have the baby i plan to start dancing as a way to give my daughter the world... my only problem is telling him that. i know that he is not going to be happy about it but i also know that her needs are going to come first, i know that he knows that she is going to come before him for the rest of our lives but i love him and afraid of loosing him because i have to do something that i don't want to do to make sure that i can take care of her the way that she needs me to. my real problem is that i love her more, but that i love him no less, that i want to give her the world, but that i want to keep him in my world for myself. we are not all that serious, it's only been like six months but i am still afraid to wake up not having his support emotionally in my life.
2007-02-03 11:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by terminallysingle625 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i donot know.but if i were a boy i would disagree it either.why donnot u think about the question at his position?maybe u will get the anwser
2007-02-02 19:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by kelen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what advice to give. my bf has gone to amatuer night to watch me
2007-02-03 03:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by camorningsurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this thread is useless without pics
send me some please
2007-01-29 20:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bill F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋