ok well theres this guy i really like when ever im around him i dont know what to say or do??? so how do i get into a conversation with him???
2007-01-26 11:43:07 · 16 answers · asked by Marlen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohhh this is a nice question. look i bet the guy is really shy but look . when you are in class or something. go up to him and say hello, how are you. say something about his his shirt( it is nice or something)
2007-01-26 11:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself... find out what he likes... just ask him... but don't try to be too flirty with him... just be a friend to him first. Get to know him... and then, you will see if he is the one for you. It is always better to build a friendship... you don't have to be best buds or hang out all the time... just make use of the time you do have to find out about what he likes. Talk about your likes too.
Be Confident in yourself... you're just showing your interest in a subtle way. He will notice your interest... if the "fish" takes the bait... pull him in. Basically... let things happen... they happen for a reason... if it's meant to be... then so it shall
Good Luck!
Truly,
ElleXiZ
2007-01-26 11:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your homework. Find out something that he likes and ask about that. Ask an open-ended question that does not require a yes or no answer.
Instead of: "Do you like the hot weather?" yes, or no.....
Say: "What do you like to do on such a cold day?" gives him a chance to open up and sayh something about himself.
Practice open-ended questions with your girlfriends until you get the idea.....
Good Luck!
2007-01-26 11:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for his help with home work, take a good hard look at him. Depending on his clothing you might notice things about him. Does he wear skater shoes, "Oh I just noticed do you skate? I have always wanted to learn." Even if it is a lie its an ice breaker. Honestly as a 24/M we are just shocked that women come up and chat with us, always flattering.
2007-01-26 11:51:18 · answer #4 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks!! I know, I've been there. The easiest thing would be to discuss something that he's into . . . what are his likes? Bring something up that he likes and he'll most likely run with the conversation.
2007-01-26 11:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in any of your classes? Ask him about an assignment. Or even just a casual "hey, your in my ___ class right?" or do you guys both have the same friend? Ask him/her to introduce you. Just take a bold step...hope this helped!
2007-01-26 11:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax dont worry so much act as if u were talkin to someone that u know. or just tell him how u feel if it helps close u r eyes and just Say it and then give him time to answer.
2007-01-26 11:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by indi9891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start asking him questions about himself and see where they lead. Like, what kind of music does he like, what sports, etc. Here's one to get you started: "If you were going to grow a mustache, what shape would it be?"
Just random stuff to make him laugh or get him talking about himself. He'll probably get the hint and start asking you questions about yourself, too (if he's interested).
2007-01-26 11:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by desernay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know his screen name you can "accidentally" IM him and you can start a whole conversation from that, that's what i did with my crush and then we became really good friends and eventually started going out.
2007-01-26 11:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him. If he is interested, he will talk to you and lead the conversation
2007-01-26 11:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Bob Danvers-Walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋