There is this girl at my school that i like alot, and i just don't know if she will like me. I mean that i am not that good looking, so i can't count on my looks to get her. All i want to know is if teenage girls really do look at looks first. Any feed back would be helpful, preferably from females, just cause they will know what they are talking about.
2007-01-26 11:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality matters, i fell in love with my fiance for his personality, how you treat her and your friends counts. If she likes you she will watch how you treat others to see how you might treat her.
2007-01-29 14:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Chusa_Loca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a young person yes all they think about is looks. They make very bad decisions and marry the wrong person. That is why most marriages fail.
The second time they go for the guy with the education and the good job. Get a really good job and make money and buy a house and all those cheer leaders marrying the football players.
Will be divorced in 3 years and they see you with a house and a good job and they will practically rape you.
I know from first hand experience. This guy was a real geek in school and took computer programming. When he got out went to work for this big company. Bought a house from this company and girls that wouldn't even look his way was calling him and he had a string of girl friends. He said, "girls that wouldn't give me a second look when I was in high school."
Now are asking for my phone number.
That is when a women appreciates a good man and will treat you descent. Right now they are just in lust.
2007-01-26 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Teenage boys are approximately looks by skill of nature. adult adult males are seen creatures so the 1st issues on their lists of popularity ought to do with visual attraction. this is only how that's, sweetie. that doesn't provide up as quickly as they become older inspite of the incontrovertible fact that character features that they locate beautiful incorporate somewhat greater age and adulthood. Now so a techniques as determining what a particular teenage boy likes, you ought to ask him fairly than everyone else around him or people who don't be attentive to him in any respect. i'm specific he does no longer want to be lumped into generalities yet might want to be asked approximately his very own innovations. it could be honest to him to evaluate him as a man or woman as you may want he do a similar. good?
2016-09-28 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by heusel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL>...let's start by simply "straightening" the facts here, buddy! NOT ALL teenage girls are like that! I am NOT yet 20, so I STILL qualify as a "Teenager"...lol
AND I rather look for this qualities:
*Caring
*Compassionate
*Good Listener
*Humble
*Athletic
*Passionate
*Understanding
*FUNNY
*Courageous
*Willing
*Adventorous
AND MANY MORE....but JUST to give you a "POINT"...like it??
Anyways...as far as ADVISE goes for me, I CANNOT give U a CORRECT answer to help U here...but I will tell you this:
FATE, AND DESTINY WILL BRING YOU GUYS TOGETHER...IF IT IS MEANT TO LAST...IF IT IS MEANT TO BE....IF IT IS REAL..
good luck...believe in yourself...hold your head up high..and have fun being yourself..chicks DIG that..well unless you are rude, dirty, annoying, and cocky....*wink*...lol..=)\\/
PEACE,
**Ferrari Girl**
2007-01-26 11:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and i dont like guys (yet) but i do know that to be honest they go for looks more. That's why you should be really nice to her. Make her feel special. Girl's LOVE LOVE LOVE 2 be pampered. Get her flowers, chocolate, and this is the perfect time 2 ask this question cuz it's almost valentines day. Send notes, gifts, and be her secret admireror. Make a romantic poem, ask her out, make her feel really special. Be fun and, well, not silly but out-going and mysterious. Girls love that!
2007-01-26 11:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I fell in love with my boyfriend of nearly two years over his PERSONALITY!!!! I was first attracted to his beautiful eyes. Then the way he looked at me. If you look a girl in the eye, like you're really trying to understand her, she'll be hooked at least to come say hello, and try and figure you out. We talked for hours the first day, and I was hooked completely. Giver her a chance to show she has some depth.
Goodluck!!
2007-01-26 11:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Shae 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally don't..it is good if they are nice looking along with a great personality, but that's not what i go for. I look for someone who is sweet, treats me right, is nice, funny, and loyal..plus somebody i have a lot in common with.
2007-01-26 11:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that both looks and personality matter. I think that personality is more important though.
2007-01-26 11:48:16 · answer #8 · answered by shortie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she only cares about looks shes not good enough for you.
Think about it though.. do you know her or just like her for her looks?
2007-01-26 11:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
personality is always number one in likeing a guy, but the guy does have to be cute. Looks start it, personality keeps it going!
2007-01-26 11:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋