im in 7th grade in middle school, and i really like this guy, but we r only friends right now. is it okay to ask him outor something
2007-01-26 11:39:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely! Just don't get your hopes up -- most seventh grade guys aren't really ready to start dating yet.
2007-01-26 11:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been taught to NEVER ask a guy out. Guys like a challenge, when theres no challenge, they get bored and move on. Keep a guy curious. Don't be obvious with it, because once you are, they're gonna know that you like them, and they won't show interest anymore (not all but MOST). Who wants that to happen? LoL I mean guys are the masculine ones, THEY are supposed to ask us females. And if they can't,,, don't do it for them because you're taking away from their manly ness and they'll be shy for the rest of their life and it would suck LoL. I'd rather have a guy who is interested in me FIRST so I wont have to worry about much ickyness. Well, good luck! ^_^
Oh yeah and another thing, when u ask a guy out, you have a more chance of getting HURT. Rather not go out with a guy, then get hurt trying to ask him lol. Some guys dont take these things seriously like we do so yeah...
2007-01-26 11:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can but you definitely should NOT! And if you're in 7th grade, how can you go out? Will your parents take you somewhere or do you mean just "going out" with eachother while at school? You are too young anyway - call your girlfriend and go to the mall, behave yourself! And don't throw yourself at boys!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-26 11:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is alright for a girl to ask a guy out. Now a days it the woman who needs to take charge becasue some guys are too shy they don't know what to do, so go ask him out and enjoy the day.
2007-01-26 11:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, allow's ignore all the sexist human beings accessible! this is the twenty-first freaking century. in case you want someone, tell them. females shouldn't ought to holiday backseat to men all of our lives basically because this is taken into consideration "custom". Screw that, lol! I have requested out men previously, and frequently it is going extremely properly. men like females that take value. in case you i like someone then I tell them. i imagine this is how all females might want to imagine. Yeah it feels sturdy to get requested out, yet allow's settle for it, 1/2 the inhabitants doesn't have the balls for that. now and again the lady basically has to get the relationship began, then the guy can take over from there.
2016-10-17 03:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should go for it. Its really cute when girls ask guys out (at least i think so). Check how he acts around you and how he acts around other girls so see if he likes you (if you dont already know). Usually guys in middleschool are shy when it comes to aksing a girl out so they dont do it even if they really like them (that was the case for me) good luck!
2007-01-26 11:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7th grade??? concentrate on your studies you have plenty of time for him later. Just be school friends and leave it at that.
What you want will change a bunch of times before you need to think about dating.
2007-01-26 11:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah definitly me gf asked me out and we've been together like 10 months and were only in 7th grade too
2007-01-26 11:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Agent Buckwald! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OO im in 7th grade too....umm i think u should c if he likes u back and then ask him out..or if u try to act hard to get...he mite wanna ask
2007-01-26 11:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by T-Lo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys much prefer to be asked out. Asking a girl out stresses the hell out of us. youd be doing him a favor.
2007-01-26 11:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋