For a few months things have been very rocky between me and my boyfrien....we live apart so only see each other every 6 weeks coz im at uni but we've been together for 2 years..i have never ever looked at another man untill someone started showing me attention in a way my boyfriend has not shown me in a long time. I'd had alot to drink and just got cqarried away and ended up kissing him....i now feel so guilty i cant eat or sleep...its eating away at me....i regret it so much and know that i will never do it again...but dont know what to do....is it the right thing to tell my boyfriend? Or do i try and put it beind me and try even harder to sort things out with my boyfriend?
2007-01-26 11:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell your beau. HOWEVER, are you into this new guy? Does he treat you with respect? Is he intriguing? Is he everything that your current beau is and more?
If you decide to stay w/your current b/f, do NOT tell him. You made a mistake. If this new guy has something that you would like to further explore, break up with your b/f. It sounds like this new guy knocked your socks off, not just in a physical way but he must be intelligent, caring, loving, tender, etc.
2007-01-26 11:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NUMBER 1 TELL HIM the worst thing to do is bottle it up it will keep eating away at you. from there it is his choice if he loves u he will understand but first explain to him how u feel about ur relatioship and what u want to happen make sure your happy and tell him that u want more time together and things have to happen !!!!
good luck xoxo
2007-01-26 11:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by hunniswirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think u love him but u really dont..........i been drunk only a few times but still aware of what im doing around ppl....u better tell him whats up........if u were my gf i will eventually find out anyway........cuz my gf cant hide a damn **** from me....lol.....besides it takes a real lady to admit her mistakes....he might get hurt dont know....but i promise u he will appreciate ur honesty.......dont be afraid to be apart if that might be the case....just know u did the rite thing...butttttttt u have to really know that what u did was wrongggg....tell him n mean it......
2007-01-26 11:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by John V-13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not too bad. Just tell him the truth and stop torturing yourself. He'll understand. People aren't made of stone. Everybody makes mistakes, just don't do it again
2007-01-26 11:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask youself this question..... do you really love him? if you do then you would tell him... and make the point that you were drinking... and if you really really like this guy that you kissed wile you were drunk then get to know him more... who knows maybe you two will go out
2007-01-26 11:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd feel guity if he didn't know. Maybe you should tell him. If you think he'll break up with you then maybe you shouldn't you know your boyfriend better then anyone on Yahoo! Answers.
2007-01-26 11:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..you were drunk..but maybe talk to him if he will understand! or else..just forget the past and move on.
Good luck! :) :)
2007-01-26 11:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him ....... and look deep inside yourself because if yoy honestly loved him this would not have happened...
2007-01-26 12:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by squirt21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drunk kiss?? thats not cheating too badly. itll be Ok. drunk sex though.....watch yourself.
2007-01-26 11:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋