O.k so it's Friday and we got our report cards today and every one was blabbing about a certain report card. It had an average of 0.2. Now I admit that is bad but I don't really care. And the guy who owened it was upset. So I said,"Leave him alone. Obviosly he isn't proud of it." WRONG THING TO SAY!
So out of nowhere my "friend" YELLS "*my name* likes *his name*" Which I don't!
And quess what. I already like a guy that I know for certain likes me back. And now my stupid idotic friend just started a fake rumor. And quess what else. The guy I freakn' like is going to hear about it.
That will ruin every thing!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-26 11:33:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tleek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this seems like a big deal, but the truth is, if this is the biggest problem you have this week, it will have been a pretty great week! Of course, that probably doesn't really help what you are feeling... so:
Chances are you are best to ignore it as much as possible and not say too much. The bigger deal you make of this, the bigger deal it will be. If someone says they heard something about you liking this person, you can simply act a little exasperated, and say that you stuck up for him because someone needed to, but that you aren't interested in him in that way; leave it at that. Or, if someone asks you if you like him, you can just say "no." If you can leave it at just a no, do that (as I said, the less you say, the better).
You did the right thing by sticking up for him. Feel good about that. There is a chance this will all be forgotten come Monday... and if not, keep any comments short and simple and don't let people goad you into making it more than it is (which is just something you can be teased about).
2007-01-26 11:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the kind of person who never talks crap behind people's back. I never start conflicts and I try to avoid them. One time two people came up to me saying I was talking crap about them. One was notorious for fighting (And I didn't know them,) I told them that I didn't know them and therefore would not have any reason to speak badly about them. The other one I was more familiar with. I told that one that if they wanted to fight, come alone and don't bring friends to do their dirty work, and that I had not done anything wrong. I knew they were in fact the one talking badly about me behind my back. Luckily I am an intimidating person, even though I'm one of the nicest, down to earth, honorable people you could possibly meet. I also have a calm mentality and I calmly walked away knowing I was safe to do so. The guy you are talking about seems like he is looking for someone, ANYONE to fight. He is mad at the world. You need to be careful around these types.
2016-05-24 03:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't start a rumor about your friend because two wrongs don't make a right. The only way to make people stop is if you ignore them Although they may continue for a while, they might say " Oh, If she is ignoring us, maybe she really doesn't like him!" Some ignorant people may do differently, so just slap or punch them!
2007-01-26 11:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by PRiNcEsSmO999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the rumor. Roll your eyes when you hear that rumor. Play it off as if you don't care. Start getting a little closer to the guy that you really do like and have your friends see that.
Nobody really cares about who you like or don't like. It's just something to tease you about, no one really believes those types of rumors anyways...somebody likes somebody all the time and it changes constantly.
2007-01-26 11:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok!
ALl you need to do..this id the most simple answer and it works believe me!!
COMPLETELY IGNORE IT!
Act like it never happened and go on.
But flirt with the guy you do like!
He really won't care.
Don't even talk to your friend about what they said.
If you act like it's no problem so will everybody else.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-26 11:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a rumor about your friend and say that shes the one that really likes him and she was trying to cover it up by saying you like him
2007-01-26 11:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by oaklndpride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im no rumor expert but,
only way to stop a rumor
is to take drastic steps
like start another rumor, that opposes that one
or make one up that he's gay
2007-01-26 11:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is not a true friend! That is just mean!
2007-01-26 11:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to beat up ur "friend"
but wtf? y ask a 12 year old like me?
2007-01-26 11:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by T-Lo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋