im going with a shy girl to the movies
what could i do to possibly turn her on
or make her wanna kiss or make out?
2007-01-26 11:32:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jenna T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
share popcorn
wear axe
pay
act like a gentleman
2007-01-28 03:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the starfish back in the pants, spongebob - lol. You sound a little over eager. My guess is that this is the first date. That is always exciting. But take a step back. Speaking as a shy girl, I am shy with people I don't know very well. You can't just jump on her, you have to build trust. Just start going out together and getting to know one another. If its meant to happen, then it will do so in its natural time. Don't try to pressure her into anything. That is the worst thing you can do. My hope is that you genuinely like this girl and aren't JUST trying to get into her pants.. If you truly like her, then respect her and let things happen naturally. She will kiss you when she is ready and you will definatley know when she is ready. If you are just trying to get into her pants and have no interest in her as a person, then do her a favor and walk away.
PS - I found the right guy. He knew how to treat me and respected me in everyway. We've been together for a little over 2 years and were married 7 months ago.
2007-01-26 11:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Marijane K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's best id for you to wait for her. if she truely is shy, you making an obvious move will seem rude and annoying. You'll get shot down immediately. What you have to do is be nice. And still be yourself. Just make sure that you hold doors open for her, pay for her popcorn, and simple stuff. Hold her hand in the movie, maybe slip an arm around her. If she's okay with that, play with her hair a little and play up how pretty she looks. But the most important thing to remember is BE HONEST AND DONT RUSH!!!
2007-01-26 11:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Shae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and hopefully you are charming, sensual, fun to be with and worth it in general. If you are all of these things and she is an intelligent and sensitive girl you may get a kiss - in her own good time.
If you are, on the other hand, a cad, a creep and just in it for what you can get off her then move on. Shy girls take effort. If you don't care enough to put in the effort, then move on to a party girl who will put out for you with no thought to her self respect or yours.
2007-01-26 11:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first date spongebob? Take things easy, if she's shy then dont push her too far cause she could freak out and not go out with you again. I would start with either holding her hand or placing your hand on her theigh. Gently caress her, and see where that goes. If you want you can try to kiss her, but I think thats not a good thing if its a first date. Maybe the next one....
2007-01-26 11:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure if she likes you that things will happen naturally. Don't rush anything. Things will come in time. You will just have to wait til she is ready. She may be shy but getting to know you better, should at least help her to not be so shy around you.
2007-01-26 12:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never rush a girl into anything. Don't worry, the more she'll hang out with you, the less shy she'll become! Most shy ppl aren't shy with the ppl they know. It'll take some time so don't rush things! Let everything be natural lol.
2007-01-26 11:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch her reaction to your actions. If you hold her hand, does she seem comfortable? Notice her facial expression and body language. If so, maybe you could put your arm around her shoulders and see if she is comfortable with that. If you do anything and she seems to tense up or look uncomfortable, back off immediately. Just be really nice to her and attentive.
2007-01-26 11:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by j s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This answer has absolutely nothing to do with your question, but I have to ask. If people don't want a man or don't want a women to open these questions, then why do you put "Girls only, or Boys only"? You know that curiousity is going to get the best of us. LOL
2007-01-26 11:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT.
That is no way to get a girl. You need to earn her trust and her respect by being a gentleman and treating her like a lady, not like a piece of meat.
2007-01-26 11:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋