Okay well me and this guy aren't official but it's kinda like we go out, but we don't...but we do have sex. We made an agreement that we would be the only one that each other is sleeping with...well today when me and him was commenting each other on myspace...I kept seeing other comments appear from this other girl..and it was along the lines of her coming back into town and them so called partying...and him saying sure if she can hang this time..and her sayin "I can hang but the question is can u??" and him saying something like "gurl u know i'm down 4 wuteva..I can handle wuteva u dish out"..and basically giving each other subtle sexual innuendos...well what i'm asking is if I should be concerned..like are they sleeping together? Since we're not "official" do I have the right to question him and so on and so forth...advice please!!!!!
2007-01-26 11:32:46 · 8 answers · asked by RockStar Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find another guy.......yall not together u have to worry bout this already????...pass this up.....ur just some extra booty for him ....n if u r actually lookin a real relationship then find a real one.....but if u just wanna have fun then kick it with him....
2007-01-26 11:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both agreed to only having sex with each other and no one else. He should keep his word. Even though you guys aren't official it was still a promise between you two. Keep that in mind. Talk to him about it and see what he says, don't bring it up in a "we need to talk way" but more casual. You could start off with a conversation about myspace and how stupid they are, then they'll lead to your question. Though don't always take the stuff you see on myspace seriously. They could just be joking around and are old friends.
2007-01-26 11:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r married to him &u r trying to catch him then Have at it !Good luck Thats what I wd do! I hope, if he's having a affair he wd tell ya. but most men wd not. If he is playing around I hope he is not stupid enough to to have an affair out right admitting he does it although this would be ideal 4 u to catch him, BAM Adultry Charges!!!!!... If he is fooling around he should be divorced... If he is not married u have no right to say anything b/c he has not commited a vow w/ u!!!.... Remember something though... if he is sleeping around he could pick something up that could kill u ... Is it wrth it?
2007-01-26 11:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you shouldn't say or do anything , since you and him have an agreement to be friends with benefits. But if you want a guy to miss some hot babe because your just friends froget it. It's all for one and it's him. SO if you want give him some drama or cut him off but he will get what he wants when that girl makes it there. SO think about it. Want a bf or want a friend?
2007-01-26 11:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dealing with myspace comments is way too immature. he probably just uses it for ego boosts anyway but when i was in a situation like that, i was dead on right. so be careful and just play the same game he's playing. see who cracks first and wants to make it official.
2007-01-26 11:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's REALLY important that you know if he's sleeping with others. There are a lot of STDs out there so honesty about sex is PARAMOUNT!!!
2007-01-26 11:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by ZZ9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't official....
just a buddy with benefits
next time watch out on the "kinda" "sorta"
2007-01-26 11:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump his tire ***. if he lie once, he'll do it again and again. he seems too flirtatious and fresh with those other girls. he's saying all of that in the public, no telling what he'll do in the public at one of those parties.
2007-01-26 11:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by monique84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋