Is this normal?How do i stop thinking about her?She is a great person.
2007-01-26 11:30:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the tone of your question, it seems to imply that you are thinking about this other woman in an unwholesome way. Is it normal? No. Is it right? No. You chose your wife... focus on her, and do all that you can to be the best husband that you can be. Check your priorities, and do what is right.
2007-01-26 11:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what your thoughts are. If they are physical ( lust ) then it is wrong. Because you are adding poison to your marriage. You are not showing love and respect to your wife. It will eventually kill it.
The other woman represents what you are lacking in your wife. That is what is so attractive. But understand this principle. No matter who you are with - you will never be totally satisfied. Everyone lacks something . The grass is greener on the other side in some cases. But all grass needs to be mowed. Look at the beautiful Halle Berry. Her previous marriages ended in divorce. Her men cheated on her. Brad Pitt left Jennifer Aniston. Cameron Diaz caught Justin Timberlake messing with another woman.
I would suggest to stop it. It will eventually lead to a break up. And then you will be really sorry. How would you like it if your wife was doing this to you ?
2007-01-26 11:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by mrgogee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can be tricky. We are only human. I guess you must ask yourself if your marriage now is strong enough to sustain a continued relationship? We are all attracted to someone else at one point or another, but I guess we must try to remeber why we are married in the first place. Take your mind back to why and then ask yourself if this feeling is still what you are seeking in this long term committment. I am single so I often put myself in the other woman's shoes if I know that the guy is married and he is trying to put the moves on me, I stop him cold because I know that it could be very harmful to his wife. I want no part of a man who would attempt to cheat on his wife.
2007-01-26 11:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by mymohum1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly okay! You have become curious and many other married women find themselves in your shoes. My wife of 17 years has begun enjoying the company of another woman and we are both comfy with it. Have you spoken to your husband? Maybe he'd be ok with you exploring your feelings.
Contact me and we'll chat!
2007-01-26 11:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with THINKING about her..just don't do anything else....
2007-01-26 11:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋